In Memoriam


We remember our deceased alumni, faculty and staff.

"Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever." - From the 23rd Psalm

Please keep the deceased and their family in your prayers.

"Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon them. May the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace." - Eternal Rest Prayer

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If you notice anyone missing or incorrect information on the above list of deceased alumni, faculty and staff, please contact the advancement team.

Below, we also remember these 2018 deaths in the extended Xavier family. Please pray for the families.

If you would like us to remember a deceased family member, please contact the advancement office at advancement@xavierhighschool.org or call the main number at 860-346-7735. This list is maintained during the calendar year.

Susan Martha (Brown) DeRing: Lived in Portland; passed away Sept. 9. Mother of Tommy DeRing ’92 and Joe DeRing ’96 (former Xavier employee and owner of Empower Leadership Sports).

Douglas Joseph Sullivan, Class of 1968: Formerly of Middletown; passed away Sept. 12 in North Port, Fla.

David C. Meehl Sr.: Resided in Middletown; passed away Aug. 6. Father of David Meehl Jr. ’79.

Eileen Marie Kelly: Died Aug. 10; graduate of Mercy and sister of Brendan Kelly and Colin Kelly ‘04

Mary Weselcouch: Lived in Essex; passed away June 12. Mother of Edward Jr ‘1970, James ’71 and David ’73. Wife of Edward Sr., member of Xavier Hall of Honors.