Xavier High School mourns the passing of Brother Thomas Fahey, C.F.X., a man whose life reflected the joy, faith, and service at the heart of the Xaverian mission. The last surviving member of the novitiate class of 1954, Brother Fahey was born in Somerville, Massachusetts. After professing his first vows in 1956, he began a journey that would take him from classrooms to athletic fields, from parish gatherings to the hallways of Xavier High School, always with a warm smile, a sharp wit, and an unshakable belief in the goodness of God.
His early ministry included assignments at St. Teresa’s Elementary School in Brooklyn and St. Joseph’s School in Oradell, New Jersey, where he continued his studies at Seton Hall University and later St. John’s University, earning a B.S. in Mathematics in 1963. He went on to receive a Master’s Degree from Columbia Teachers’ College in 1967.
For 27 years, Brother Fahey served as Dean of Students at St. John’s High School in Shrewsbury, Massachusetts. His work there was as dynamic as it was wide ranging, overseeing student life, directing Camp St. John’s, supporting athletics, speaking at parish novenas, even serving as a Reserve Deputy Sheriff for the City and County of Worcester. His presence was felt everywhere, his enthusiasm often punctuated by song. In 1992, St. John’s recognized him for his outstanding contributions to Pioneer athletics, a testament to his enduring commitment to young people.
In 1998, Brother Fahey arrived at Xavier High School in Middletown, where he served as Director of Admissions for 16 years. He brought the Xavier story to life for families across Connecticut, whether in person or over the radio, and helped welcome a new generation of Falcons to Randolph Road. His voice also became a familiar sound at Xavier athletic contests, where his steadfast support of student athletes never wavered. In 2011, he was inducted into the Xavier High School Hall of Honors.
His Irish heritage found a home in his years in Middletown, where he became deeply involved in the Ancient Order of Hibernians in Meriden. In 2002, he received national recognition for his dedicated service, and in 2013, he proudly served as Grand Marshal of their St. Patrick’s Day Parade.
In May 2025, Xavier renamed its Falcon Achievement Award in his honor, a fitting tribute to a man who embodied the very spirit of the award. Brother Fahey was beloved for his wit, warmth, and unmistakable presence. His T shirts proclaimed his outlook on life: “Relax. God’s in Charge” and “I Do Not Need Your Attitude. I Have My Own.” He handed out M&M’s from his desk, kept a watchful yet compassionate eye on the dining hall, and gave every student he met the gift of belonging.
Like all Xaverian Brothers, Brother Fahey was a man of deep faith and service, devoted to building relationships that reflected the love of Christ. He showed our students what it meant to live for something greater than oneself. His influence can still be felt in every young man who wears the Xavier uniform, competes with honor, studies with purpose, and walks these halls with pride.
Early last Sunday morning, the Xaverian choir in heaven gained its newest member, a familiar voice now raised in praise before God. Brother Thomas Fahey, C.F.X., spent nearly 90 years giving his heart to others. Now, he sings eternally in the presence of the One he served so joyfully.
May he rest in the peace of Christ.