Alumni Newsletters

Annual Fund Drive at the Half-Year Point

We are pleased to report that as of December 31, we have received $584,190 in contributions to the 2024-2025 Annual Fund Drive. We are making good progress but have a long way to go to reach our goal of $1.1 million for this fiscal year.

To date, we have received donations from 405 alumni. We need to receive 1,000 to also achieve our participation goal of 13%. Every gift received from an alumnus, regardless of amount, impacts this number. The higher the participation rate, the better chance Xavier High School has of receiving foundation and corporate support when applying for grants.

If you are already counted in the number of alumni donors above, you have our sincere thanks. We are also aware that there are hundreds of graduates who gave last year that we can count to make a gift between January and June 2025, because you/they prefer to give each calendar/tax year.

Remember that if you have a brother, son, nephew, etc., that is a graduate of Xavier and does not currently support this outstanding high school, please encourage him/them to participate this year. We would appreciate it if you would also reach out to classmates with whom you are still friends to support the school. We need all the help we can get to achieve our lofty goals. 

We realize that many of you are still in college, paying college tuition(s), or have other pressing financial commitments that currently don’t allow you to make a significant contribution to Xavier. But even a gift of $10, $25, or $50 will have a positive impact on our percentage of participation goal. It’s the cost of a pitcher of beer, breakfast for 2 at Starbucks, or lunch for 2 at your favorite local restaurant. Isn’t it worth giving up just one of these purchases a year to help your alma mater thrive?

Please click HERE to contribute and instantly increase the alumni participation rate!

We look forward to reporting in June that we have achieved both goals for 2024-2025. Can’t do it without many more graduates responding to our appeals!

Your Alumni & Development Team,

Rich Feitel, Greg Jaskot '00, and Suzanne Berry

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As a valued member of our Xavier community, we take pride in your amazing accomplishments both during your time at Xavier and after graduation. Your achievements are a source of inspiration for our current students and fellow alumni, who are constantly striving to uphold the Xavier legacy. If interested in sharing your story, please click the button below!

Need Your Help in Re-Forming Alumni Class Reps System at XHS

Back in the 1980’s and 1990’s, there were at least 2 Class Reps from every graduating class. You may have been one of them. They were a tremendous help to Xavier High School in conducting alumni events, contacting classmates during the Annual Fund Phonathon, and gathering information for the “Alumni Briefs” section of the alumni newsletter.

Due to limited personnel and time in the Alumni & Development Office, we just can’t do everything we would like to do for you and your families. We are reaching out to you in hopes that we can resurrect the Class Representatives system this year and be much more effective in serving the needs of our alumni population.

Responsibilities of a Class Rep will be to:

• Promote the mission, goals and ideals of XHS,
  
  
  
• Serve on your Reunion Committee if it’s a reunion year,
  
  
  
• Promote alumni events and encourage class participation,
  
  
  
• Monitor the activity of your class as best you can and share interesting news in the form of class briefs for the Alumni E-News,
  
  
  
• Serve on at least one alumni event committee (at least 6 to choose from).

With the ability to use Zoom for meetings, there is no need to physically be near Xavier. We can use your help wherever you are!

Can’t take the Xavier Alumni Association back to the top of alumni supported Catholic schools in the country without more involvement and assistance from our graduates! Click HERE if you would like to become an official Class Representative for XHS.

It’s A Reunion Year for all the Classes Ending in 0 and 5!!

The graduating classes of 1970, 1975, 1980, 1985, 1990, 1995, 2000, 2005, 2010, 2015 and 2020 will be celebrating special reunions this year.

The Alumni & Development Office will assist the members of any class that would like to conduct a reunion by helping to form committees, providing contact information for classmates, and suggesting possible reunion venues. 

We are also planning to hold an event here at Xavier in the fall for not only special reunion classes but for any class that would like to have a class gathering.  

The Class of 1975 has been working for a year on planning their 50^th. Information on that reunion should be distributed to members of that class soon.

Please contact the Alumni & Development Office to inform us if you would like to be a member of your class reunion committee. The more alumni involved, the more successful your reunion will be!

The Search Goes on for Missing Alums:

The Xavier Alumni & Development Office is making an all-out effort this year to find alumni from every class for whom we have no contact information. We would like to be able to reach them with this E-Newsletter and provide regular information regarding reunions and special alumni events. XHS has never been notified of their death, so we presume all are still living.

If you know the whereabouts of any of the alumni from the Classes of 1996,1997, 1998, 1999, and 2000 listed below, please contact Suzanne Berry, Rich Feitel or Greg Jaskot in the Alumni & Development Office (860-346-7735, Ext. 737).

We will publish a list of as many Classes as space provides in each issue of the E-News going forward.

1996
Mark Castiglioni, Mike Cavallaro, Michael Chesnes, Shaun Clapp, Thad Karatkewicz, Pat Kellaher, Eric Lepoutre, Elihu Lyman, Derric Moore, Pat Planeta, Steve Ricci, Tashi Rodriguez, Jared Steffman, Eric Summit, Gerard Tarrant, Garrett Tucker, Dave Varni, Jon Winslow, and Brian Zelesky.

1997
Cortland Imeokparia, Frank Maratta, Bryan Millspaugh, Mike Paulus, Andrew Ramage, Chris Rouleau, Kamil Salus, Brett Schambach, Joe White, and Brian Wozniak.

1998
Jason Cronen, Arthur D’Onofrio, Jastin Falla, Matt Grocki, Travis Hammel, Christian Lassonde, Chris Matson, Tim McAuliffe, Matt Miramant, Frank Petracca, Mike Puzzo, Mike Stavola, Bill Triantafyllidis, Matt Walsh, and Mike Williams.

$25,000 Cash Raffle Has Started

The Xavier High School 25K cash raffle is back!

• Tickets are $100 each. Only 800 will be sold and the winner takes home 25,000 dollars.
  
  
• Ticket numbers will be sent via email. When purchasing a ticket, you must provide an email address. Ticket numbers will not be sent out in the mail. 
  
  
• The drawing will be at 11 a.m. on Wednesday, April 9 at Xavier High School. You do not need to be present to win, but you must be at least 18 years old to purchase.
  
  
• Purchaser of the winning ticket is responsible for all taxes. In accordance with IRS regulations, all state and federal taxes will be withheld by Xavier High School.  
  
  
• Tickets may be purchased by mailing a check (please do not mail cash) to Xavier High School, 181 Randolph Road, Middletown CT 06457. They also can be purchased clicking here! 
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For more information, contact the office of Alumni & Development office at 860-346-7735. Good Luck!

Alumni Briefs 

Aaron Leroux ’97 is an independent photojournalist and documentary photographer currently traveling the world covering protest movements, refugee crisis, and other political and cultural issues. He has published two books; “Were It Not for Shadows” is a book of street photography focusing on Los Angeles, CA. He co-authored a second book, “The Nature of Water,” which features the collective work of over 50 international photojournalists who documented the 2019 Anti-Extradition protests in Hong Kong.

The Jim Henson Foundation and the Ballard Institute and Museum at the University of Connecticut present “American Puppet Theater Today,” featuring works by Richard Termine ’71. The display will feature over 130 images and select puppets. Rich currently is the Performing Arts Photographer for the New York Times and has been the Production Photographer for Sesame Street & The Muppets for 20 years. He started his career with Jim Henson 40 years ago. The display will run from January 31, 2025, to May 11, 2025 at the Ballard Institute and Museum on 1 Royce Circle at UConn.  

"Catch the Fever on Saturday March 22nd, 2025! 

The Xavier Home and School Association is excited to host an eXciting night of fun and funds raising during the 33rd Annual Black and White Auction.
Make sure to Save the Date and follow the event to stay informed... entertained... intrigued... and most of all eXcited for the unforgettable night on Randolph Road!

FB event: https://www.facebook.com/events/2726321857556687/

IG: https://www.instagram.com/xavierbwauction?igsh=eXpvaHppdXBoajQw

Twitter:  https://x.com/xavierauction?t=pZ87ynN3MsE2lGTruNryrw&s=09

In Memoriam 

• Sebastian LoGiudice, father of John '89 and grandfather of Sebastian LoGiudice '21, Nicholas Mazzotta '12, and Luigi Mazzotta '10. To read the obituary, CLICK HERE.
  
  
  
• Mario Fazzino, father of John '04. To read the obituary, CLICK HERE.
  
  
  
• Ryan Eno, brother of John Eno '09. To read the obituary, CLICK HERE. 
  
  
  
• David Sierpinski, father of Scott '77 and grandfather of Cole '21. To read the obituary, CLICK HERE. 
  
  
  
• Stephen P. Miles '67.
  
  
  
• Brendan Wood '78.
  
  
  
• Timothy Connelly, Sr, father of Cal '15 and Timothy '17.
  
  
  
• Carey M. Hewitt '74.
  
  
  
• Michael Cowell '77.
  
  
  
• Roy Brown, father of Derrick Brown '88 and Todd Brown '88 (deceased).
  
  
  
• Joseph Serra, Sr., father of Joseph Serra, Jr. '92.
  
  
  
• Mrs. Joan D'Orvilliers, wife of Roland '70.

Each month we remember those who have died recently and those who are called to our attention. Please keep them, their families, and friends in your prayers. The full list of alumni, faculty, and staff memorials is on the webpage at MEMORIALS.

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Annual Fund Drive – Goals for Alumni Support

From February to July of 2024, a concerted effort was made to contact as many alums as possible via phone calls, personalized first-class letters, and direct emails. During that time, we received donations from over 350 new and recovered alums (had not given for years). That raised the percentage of alumni participation from 4% in January to nearly 9% by fiscal year end.

We launched the 2024-2025 AFD in October. Personalized appeal letters have been mailed to every alum from 1967 to 1997 for whom we have an address. We have focused efforts to attract support from our 1998-2023 graduates via email blasts and social media postings. Plans are also being made to conduct an alumni phonathon later in the fiscal year.

Our goals this year are to renew the 700 alumni donors from last year, add another 400 new or recovered alums, and reach 14% participation. Can’t do it without your support!

Please help us to achieve our goals by renewing last year’s gift, a previous donation, or making a first-time contribution to Xavier. Doesn’t have to be a lot – just a sign of support to confirm that you really care about the future of your alma mater.

Click HERE to donate now.

Rich Feitel                                                                        Greg Jaskot '00  

Alumni & Development Director                                       Associate Alumni & Development Director

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Your Alma Mater Receives Prestigious Awards

Xavier High School received two special awards in 2024.

First, the school was named a finalist with Kingswood Oxford School and Miss Porter School for Best Private School in Hartford and surrounding towns by the Hartford Courant. Quite an accomplishment for a school that charges 1/3 the tuition as the other two finalists! The administration, faculty, and staff are commended for creating a unique educational environment that positioned the school to receive this recognition.

The school also received an A+ rating from Niche.com and was rated as the second-best high school athletic program in the state of Connecticut and 46^th in the country. Niche.com is the market leader in connecting schools and colleges with students and families. Among all Catholic, private, and all-boys schools in the state, Xavier is rated number one! Darien was the only high school ranked above Xavier. Criteria for the award is based on the overall success of athletic programs, number of sports offered, and percentage of students who participate in those programs. Congratulations to Athletic Director Dan DeConti '01, all the coaches, and the hundreds of young men who participate in athletics at this outstanding high school.

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Fall Sports Finale

Congratulations to Coach Brian Fitzgerald and the Xavier Soccer Team! They made it all the way to the Class LL final where they were defeated by Farmington High School 3-1. Two thrilling come from behind wins over Glastonbury and Trumbull got them to the championship game. They completed the season with a 19-3-2 record.

The Cross Country Team completed a very successful season with an 8^th place finish in the New England Championship. Coach Chris Stonier’s harriers won their 6^th straight Class Championship and finished 5^th in the State Open.

The Football Team completed their season losing to both Hand and Wilton High School to finish at 3-7. The Falcons were never able to establish any momentum after suffering three early-season losses to Bunnell, Sheehan, and Manchester by a total of 10 points.

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Winter Sports Preview

Wrestling Coach Mike Cunningham has high standards and expectations for the upcoming season. Although only 3 varsity starters return from a team that was arguably one of the best in the history of the state, there is a great amount of young talent that should rise to the occasion and compete at the highest level. The team will travel to top tournaments throughout the Northeast this year so it will be well prepared for the postseason.

Mike Kohs ‘84 enters his 26^th year as Head Basketball Coach of the Falcons where he has compiled a career record of 370-203. Returning starters are juniors Michael Waters and Elijah Moore who both averaged double figures last year. The team has depth at the guard position and should be able to score from the perimeter. Team rebounding, great team defense, and development of depth in the front court are keys to having a successful season.

After graduating several all-state athletes and school record-holders, the Xavier Indoor Track & Field team will look for several athletes to fill the void if they are to contend for the programs 4^th consecutive Class L State Championship, and 5^th title in the last six years. The team returns distance runners Owen Martin and Jack Ouellette, two of the best milers in school history, as well as Oliver Guzy, school record holder and two-time State Open champion in the long jump. Coach Chris Stonier is also counting on contributions from Selasie Dogbey (long jump), Brendan Russ (hurdles), Johnny Simpson (sprints) and Tyler Johnson-Lanning (high jump and pole vault) to continue the success of the program.

First-year coach Evan LaRosa will lead the Falcon swimmers this year. He spent the last 8 years with the Panther Aquatic Club in Southbury. The team has some talented swimmers returning that completed in SCC and State Finals in 2024. However, to contend in those meets, the Falcons will have to increase depth as a team. Coach LaRosa’s primary goals this year are to establish a team identity and to get more students involved in the swim program.

Click Here to View the Winter Sports Schedules

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The Search Goes On For Missing Alums

The Xavier Alumni & Development Office is making an all-out effort this year to find alumni from every class for whom we have no contact information. We would like to be able to reach them with this E-Newsletter and provide regular information regarding reunions and special alumni events. XHS has never been notified of their death, so we presume all are still living.

If you know the whereabouts of any of the alumni from the Classes of 1991,1992, 1993, 1994, and 1995 listed below, please contact Suzanne Berry, Rich Feitel or Greg Jaskot in the Alumni & Development Office (860-346-7735, Ext. 737).

We will publish a list of as many Classes as space provides in each issue of the E-News going forward.

1991
Jon Cannon, Scott Carta, Steve Christmas, Chris Cragin, Malachi Davis, Brian DeLude, Brian Eggleton, Paul Gilman. Caine Kaar, Jon Kiley, Seth Maynard, Jeremy Medina, Lester Nurse, Cliff Parker, Marcus Rosano, Brian Savage, Jason Snyder, Marc Tardiff, Guido Tine, Kyle Wells, and Ryan Ziolkowski.

1992
Brendan Coty, Kevin Cyr, Richard DeMarse, Ryan Flood, Anthony Gerrits, Kevin Healy, Matt Helenek, Chris Holthausen, Scott Iovene, Damian Kelly, Brian LaPila, Matt LaPoint, Matt Light, Chris Linehan, Dan Liseo, Phil Lucey, Greg Lyons, Adam McInvale, Kieran McManus, Eric Pashley, Jeff Plante, Kevin Smith, Mark Stearns, Brent Strong, Richard Triblets, Dave Weston, Jon Whitmore, and Keith Young.

1993
Dan Cewe, Tom Cinquino, Pat Coolican, Neil Demarse, Dave D’Onofrio, Jason Dutton, George French, Eddy Huang, William Maley, Mike Mauro, Ray McKenna, Kris Moshier, Ricardo Ortiz, Jason Pressler, William Sotire, Brian St. John, Justin Sturwold, Jeremy Surette, Nathan Thermer, and Bret Waltz.

 1994
Chris Falivene, Matt Gerrits, James Glover, Barr Kimnach, Frank Latina, Tim Linden, Keith Schnabel, Michael Smith, andDavid Wood.

1995
Neal Devlin, Brian Erzen, Chris Goodney, Lee Graf, Ben Johnson, Eric Leger, Robert Light, Scott Morrison, Andrew Mulh, Matt Ostasiewski, Shawn Peters, Phil Pickering, Stephen Rickenback, Dave Sadowski, Mike Strathearn, Kevin Thurston, Darryl Tucker, and Jesse Von Dietsch.

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21st Artie Kohs Classic Set for December 26 & 27!

Save the date! The 21st Artie Kohs Classic is set for Thursday, December 26 & Friday, December 27! This year’s tournament features Xavier, Berlin, Glastonbury, and Waterford. There will be a basketball alumni reunion during the tournament. 

The Kohs Classic was started in 2004 to help generate funds for the Arthur M. Kohs scholarship fund which provides financial assistance to a current Xavier student-athlete who otherwise might be unable to benefit from a Xavier education. We are all grateful for the generous donations throughout the many years of the Kohs tournament and would like to thank those alumni and friends who have already mailed in a check or sponsored the tournament on the Xavier website.

Click here for the Artie Kohs Classic Sponsorship Page

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Magner, Morrison, & '82 Basketball Team to be Honored on January 3rd

Rich Magner, head Basketball Coach of the Falcons from 1980 to 1998, and his able assistant Tom Morrison, will be honored on January 3^rd when the current varsity team takes on Hamden High School. The 1982 team, winners of the first HCC championship in school history and tri-captained by Jeff Billings, Tom Patton, and Dave Dunn, will also be honored that evening.

The festivities begin at 5:00 p.m. with a pre-game reception. A presentation of awards will be conducted at half-time of the varsity contest. All members of any Magner/Morrison coached team are invited to attend the reception and will receive free admission to the game. Depending on the turnout, the pre-game reception will be held in the Music Suite or Lino’s Café (cafeteria).

Former basketball players are encouraged to attend this special recognition event to honor Magner, Morrison and the ’82 team. The event is being sponsored by the Alumni & Development Office.

Click Here to RSVP for this Special Event!

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Around & About

- Xavier is exploring ways to expand our summer offerings at Xavier, and we'd love for you to share THIS SURVEY with friends and family in the area that have children between the ages of 9 - 14. Together, we can shape a summer that inspires! 

- We're hosting a mini Open House on Thursday, December 5, and we’d love for you to share this opportunity with anyone who might be interested in joining the Xavier community. Whether it’s family, friends, or neighbors, your connections can help inspire future Falcons to discover all that Xavier has to offer. Thank you for helping us shape the next generation of leaders!

- Xavier alumni are invited to attend a special memorial service to celebrate the life of Coach Raj Jaswal, a beloved teacher and coach who inspired countless students and athletes. This service will be a time of prayer, reflection, and gratitude for the positive impact Coach Jaswal had on the Xavier community. The service takes place on Sunday, December 15 from 2 - 3:30 pm in the Xavier Dining Hall. CLICK HERE to RSVP.

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In Memoriam

- Frank Kehoe '92. To read the obituary, CLICK HERE. 

- Paul Buhl, father of Thomas '15 and John '19.

- Joan Gilbert, mother of George III '71, Stephen '72, Francis '74, Charles '74, John '77, Joseph '77, Andrew '78, David '80, Patrick '82, and Mark '85.

- Peter Kinsley '81.

- Katherine Foley, mother of Michael '70, Kevin '71, and James '75.

- Edwin Scott Cichon '70. 

Each month we remember those who have died recently and those who are called to our attention. Please keep them, their families, and friends in your prayers. The full list of alumni, faculty, and staff memorials is on the webpage at MEMORIALS.

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Contact Us

Xavier High School Alumni & Development 181 Randolph Road Middletown CT 06457

Rich Feitel, Director, 860-346-7735 x732, [email protected]

Greg Jaskot '00, Associate Director, 860-346-7735 x733, [email protected]

Suzanne Berry M '83, P'18, Office Manager, 860 346 7735 x737, [email protected]

From Your Alumni & Development Team - Rich Feitel, Greg Jaskot '00 & Suzanne Berry

2024-2025 Annual Fund Drive - Why We Need Your Financial Support.

Are you old enough to remember when tuition was $150, $850, or $2,500? Even $8,000 or $12,000?

 

Today, tuition is nearly $18,000, and many families would love to send their son(s) to this outstanding high school but simply can't afford it. The Alumni & Development Office works to secure funds that provide financial aid to qualifying families. Approximately 60% of our students receive some form of tuition assistance, with an average award of $5,200. This year alone, the school has provided over $1.7 million in financial aid, yet this still doesn't fully meet the needs of all families requesting support.

 

Our office is also responsible for raising unrestricted funds to sustain and enhance Xavier's academic, athletic, and campus ministry programs, as well as for maintaining the school building and grounds. Unrestricted donations to Xavier fund the school's most pressing needs, as determined by the Board of Directors and administration.

 

If you value your Xavier education and want to ensure we continue offering the very best Catholic education to every qualified young man who wishes to attend, please support your alma mater to the best of your ability. Every donation, regardless of the amount, helps secure the financial future of Xavier High School.

 

Please click HERE or visit the school website to support Xavier High School this fiscal year. Alumni from the classes of 1967 to 1990 may also return the gift envelope included with the Annual Appeal letter.

 

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Fall Sports Update

 

The Falcon football team lost its first three games by a total of 10 points to Bunnell, Sheehan, and Manchester. After a tough loss to Fairfield Prep, they rebounded with two consecutive lopsided wins over Wilbur Cross and Foran, then added a third straight win by celebrating senior night with a victory over Hillhouse. Three games remain on the schedule: North Haven, Hand, and Wilton.

 

The soccer team completed their regular with 15 wins, 2 losses and 1 tie. Both losses and the tie have come at the feet of Notre Dame-West Haven High School, the top ranked team in CT and 6th ranked team in the country. Xavier Coach Brian Fitzgerald hopes to take his team deep into the Class LL Tournament this year and recorded a first-round victory over Harding by a score of 9-1.

 

The Xavier cross country team had another very successful season. They won their 9th consecutive SCC Championship, their 6th straight Class L Championship, and finished 5th in the State Open. Only the New England Meet remains on their schedule.

 

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Good Time Had by All at the Grand Reunion

 

 

Members of the Class of 1974 celebrated their 50th at the Grand Reunion

 

The Alumni & Development Office hosted the first Grand Reunion for classes ending in 4 and 9 at Xavier High School on Friday, October 4. Over one hundred alumni attended this special event. The Class of 1973 also celebrated their 50th reunion a year late, as they were unable to hold their event in 2023.

 

Sincere thanks to Rev. Dr. Barry McCarthy '69 for helping to plan the prayer service for deceased alumni, and to Jim Powers '69 and Greg Schmidt '69 for providing the special music - it was beautiful! Thanks also to Jack Gastler '74, Fr. Frank Gilbert '74, Sebby Fazzino '19, and Patrick Kennedy '19 for participating in the service.

 

 

Class of 1973 attendees pose for a reunion photo.

 

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The Search for Missing Alums Continues...

 

The Xavier Alumni & Development Office is conducting an all-out effort this year to locate alumni from every class for whom we have no contact information. We would like to reach them with this e-newsletter and provide regular updates about reunions and special alumni events. Since XHS has never been notified of their passing, we presume all are still living.

 

If you know the whereabouts of any alums from the Classes of 1986, 1987, 1988, 1989, or 1990 listed below, please contact Suzanne Berry, Rich Feitel, or Greg Jaskot in the Alumni & Development Office (860-346-7735, Ext. 737).

 

We will publish a list of as many classes as space allows in each issue of the E-News going forward.

 

1986

Jim Cronogue, Mike Dinice, Geoff Fredericks, John Glinski, Mike Haynes, Peter LaPointe, Gopal Marath, Robert Marino, Rob Miller, Kevin Neyer, Gerry Orteneau, John O'Sullivan, Jeff Pandolfo, Bill Piombino, Derek Poulin, Craig Ruhling, and Chris Ryan.  

 

1987

Brett Berkley, Jamie Capsolas, Steve Carlson, Dave Chapman, Steve Coates, Dwayne Connelly, Rich DelVecchio, Steve DeMelis, Jim Fazzino, Mike Fitzgerald, Tim Flynn, Wayne Goodrich, Jeff Goral, Kevin Grillo, Chris Herrmann, Todd Isaacson, Ian Kleinhen, Greg Malkowski, Sean McLaughlin, John Milardo, Mike Neisser, Mike Olaski, Norman Rieger, Nick Santavenere, Ellis Smith, Dave Volpe, and Bryan Wanat.

 

1988

Scott Cheyne, Andrew Collins, Matt Cripps, Tim Danaher, Tom Dansereau, Brian Feeney, Mike Hamilton, Bill Kokis, Stuart Macdonald, Mike Mahoney, Mike Martinez, Jeff Matthews, Dan McGarthy, Earl Mitchell, W. Scott Nelson, Mike Roberts, Mike Shortley, Dave Szobota, Nate Williams, and Todd Zelesky.  

 

1989

Jeff Ferraro, Chris Gilman, Jim Grant, Gardner Howe, Sean Keefe, Eric Montie, Tim Murphy, Brian O'Connor, Nick Sainis, and Kevin Tosta.

 

1990

Chris Cahill, Joe Cannon, Dave Collins, Brian Consic, Tony Cordone, Brent Cowles, Steve Fazzino, Nel Giansanti, Jim Grover, J. Gardner Horan, Hitashi Ino, Paul Kaflinski, Glenn Kinser, Scott Kirkpatrick, Matt Linden, Rich McAvay, Dave McAvay, Tavis McCourt, Scott Perdelwitz, Kevin Reid, Geoff Roelants, Scott Rybak, Kevin Sauter, Adam Schulte, Lou Tuccitto, Chris Wheeler, Fred Williams, and Jason Wyer.

 

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Students, Faculty, Parents, and Alumni Volunteer Their Services on "Houli Day!"

 

 

Approximately 75 members of the Xavier community attended "Houli Day" on Saturday, October 12, to help beautify the campus. This special event was reinstituted in 2023 in honor of Br. Robert Houlihan, C.F.X., who not only taught science at Xavier for more than 40 years but also nearly single-handedly maintained the grounds during that time. Brother Houlihan passed away on July 19, 2021, just shy of his 90th birthday.

 

Weeds were pulled, flowers and trees were planted, and yards of mulch were spread from 8 a.m. to noon. The sound of leaf blowers could be heard across the campus all morning as leaves were cleared from grassy areas and moved into the woods.

 

Special thanks to faculty member Jeremy Fowler '94, Associate Alumni & Development Director Greg Jaskot '00, and Marketing Director Steve Cunha for all their efforts in organizing the event. Thanks also to the Xavier Home & School Association for providing beverages and snacks for all the volunteers.

 

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Class Competition Winners

 

We are pleased to announce that the Classes of 1981 and 2024 are the Alumni Class Competition championships for the 2023-2024 fiscal year. Members of the Class of 1981 donated a total of $156,595 to win the "Dollars Contributed" competition while the Class of 2024 came out on top of the "Percentage of Participation" category with 37%. The top 5 classes in each category are listed below:

 

Top 5 - Dollars Contributed                Top 5 - Percentage of Participation
1. 1981    $156,595                                1. 2024    37%
2. 1974    $64,848                                  2. 1983    25%
3. 1975    $24,281                                  3. 1968    20%
4. 1979    $18,920                                  4. 1974       19%
5. 1969    $17,735                                  5. 1967    16%

 

Donate to the best of your ability during the 2024-2025 fiscal year and help your class to capture a Top 5 spot in either or both categories this year!

 

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Alumni Briefs

 

- Congratulations to Dave Pierson '68, who was inducted into the USA Connecticut Softball Sports Hall of Fame on October 19, 2024. Dave was also inducted into the Cromwell Sports Hall of Fame in 2015 and the Middletown Sports Hall of Fame in 2022.

 

- Colin D'Amelio '11 is set to premiere his highly anticipated short documentary, The Last Houseboat, on Tuesday, November 26, at 6:30 p.m. at the Strand Theater in Seymour, CT. Produced by fellow classmate Matthew Sola '11, the film features his brother Mario Sola '05 and showcases the Sola family's deep connection to this historical boat and their efforts to preserve its legacy.

 

We would like to expand this section in future editions of the Alumni E-News. If something special has happened or is about to happen in your life, please share the information with us, and we will include it in a future issue of the E-News. Click HERE to complete the Alumni Briefs form.

 

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In Memoriam

 

- John DiSanto '76

 

- Lois Ely, mother of Mark Ely '82

 

Each month we remember those who have died recently and those who are called to our attention. Please keep them, their families, and friends in your prayers. The full list of alumni faculty and staff memorials is on the webpage at MEMORIALS.

 

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Contact Us

 

Xavier High School Alumni & Development 181 Randolph Road Middletown CT 06457
 
Rich Feitel, Director, 860-346-7735 x732, [email protected]

Greg Jaskot '00, Associate Director, 860-346-7735 x733, [email protected]

Suzanne Berry M '83, P'18, Office Manager, 860 346 7735 x737, [email protected]

A Thank You and Plea from the Alumni & Development Directors:

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For the Graduating Classes of 1969, 1974, 1979, 1984,
1989, 1994, 1999, 2009, 2014, 2019
ALL CLASS REUNION at XHS
HOLD THE DATES
FRIDAY AND SATURDAY, OCTOBER 4 & 5, 2024
 Detailed information will be coming soon!
 The Class of 2004 is planning their own Reunion in July

AROUND & ABOUT

ALUMNI UPDATES

IN MEMORIAM

MORE XAVIER NEWS & CONNECTIONS

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From the Alumni & Development Office:

Personalized appeal letters to support Xavier High School were mailed to alumni in February and March from the both of us. The results of that mailing have been very gratifying. Approximately 125 donations have been received and/or pledged during that time totaling slightly more than $150,000! 

We know many more of you plan to contribute and look forward to receiving hundreds of additional contributions before fiscal year 2023-2024 ends on June 30^th. Please do what you can to help make sure we have sufficient funds to provide financial aid to qualified and needy students, enhance academic, athletic, and campus ministry programs, and continue to provide our students with the very best faculty and staff. 

Please fill out the pledge form/envelope you received and return it with your tax-deductible contribution today! Or log onto the Xavier High School website and follow the instructions to donate. Any contribution you make will be greatly appreciated, especially by the young men here at Xavier who directly benefit from your generosity. 

Either one of us is available to answer any questions you may have. 

Rich Feitel                                                     Greg Jaskot '00

[email protected]                     [email protected]

860-346-7735, Ext 732                               860-346-7735, Ext 733

Need Summer Employees, Interns, or Part-Time Employees Year-Round?

 If you own or manage a business and are looking for young men to fill any positions, Xavier High School students are available!

 As a new service to our alumni and students, a “Jobs Available Board” will be posted outside the Alumni & Development Office. All you need to do is send a job description of the position(s) available with contact information, and we will post it on the Board. A student(s) will directly contact you to apply. 

 Please feel free to contact Rich Feitel or Greg Jaskot '00 or call the Office (860-346-7735, Ext 737) for additional information.

AROUND & ABOUT

- Congratulations to senior William McDougall and classmate Owen Carter on receiving CAS Outstanding Arts Awards at last week’s statewide banquet!

- Our Student Activities Council conducted a toiletry drive for the St. Sebastian Church Outreach Program. The more than 2,000 items collected were used in making Blessing Bags at Easter for those in need in the local community.

- We had another successful Blood Drive with the American Red Cross on March 13! Through the generosity and help of our students, faculty, and staff we were able to collect 50 units of blood. Thank you to everyone in the Xavier community for your support.

- Join us Thursday, April 25 for the first annual Xavier / Mercy Alumni Social! Hear from Xavier President Rick Misenti '72 and Mercy President Alissa DeJonge '95 with updates! Reminisce with classmates and other Mercy & Xavier grads while enjoying appetizers from Lino’s Cafe and beverages including beer, wine, soda, and water! RSVP Today!

ALUMNI UPDATES

- Congratulations to Mike Kohs ’84 on being named the 2024 SCC Boys Basketball Coach of the Year!

- Ryan Child ’17 graduated last May from Albany College of Pharmacy and Health Sciences with honors and became a Pharmacist in July of 2023. Ryan currently works as a Clinical Pharmacist for Advent Health in Florida.

NEW Alumni Spotlight: Provide some detail on you or a classmate, your family, career and accomplishments. Your info will be shared with students in the main hallway and on other school media outlets. Click here to submit your spotlight today! For more information contact alumnidevelopment@xavierhighschool.org.

IN MEMORIAM

Jennifer Wood Perkins, wife of Merrill Perkins ’74. To read the obituary, click HERE.

Francis (Frank) Rudini, former football coach. To read the obituary, click HERE.

Daniel Field, former faculty member. To read the obituary, click HERE.

Stephen Sandagata ’84. To read the obituary, click HERE.

Donna Wilson, former faculty member and mother of Kevin Wilson ’81.

Dennis Costello, father of Paul '87 and Thomas '93, grandfather of Jonathon '28. To read the obituary, click HERE.

Mark Gingras ’67. To read the obituary, click HERE.

Each month we remember those who have died recently and those who are called to our attention. Please keep them, their families, and friends in your prayers. The full list of alumni faculty and staff memorials is on the webpage at MEMORIALS.

MORE XAVIER NEWS & CONNECTIONS

Go to xavierhighschool.org, and follow Xavier High School on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.  For sports news, go to xavierfalcons.com.

XAVIER HIGH SCHOOL PRAYER - read at the close of school each day

Loving Father,

We ask you to protect the students, faculty and staff at Xavier High School.

Guide us to salvation by following the example of Jesus Christ, your Son.

Inspire us with your grace, to seek both academic success and spiritual wisdom as we use your gifts and talents in service to others.

Help us to find the strength and passion to be leaders and pioneers like Theodore James Ryken, the Xaverian Brothers and those who founded our school.

May we, in turn, accept the challenge to spread the Word of God and make the world a better place for all people.

We ask this, through Christ, our Lord. Amen

Saint Francis Xavier pray for us.

  
   - Chris Danko ’11 and Francis Rowland ’11

Xavier High School is part of the Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools (XBSS) network of thirteen high and middle schools in the United States.  To learn more about the XBSS Network go to xbss.org.

CONTACT US

Xavier High School Alumni & Development 181 Randolph Road Middletown CT 06457

Rich Feitel, Director, 860-346-7735 x732, rfeitel@xavierhighschool.org

Greg Jaskot ’00, Associate Director, 860-346-7735 x733, gjaskot@xavierhighschool.org

Suzanne Berry M ’83, P’18, Office Manager, 860 346 7735 x737, [email protected]

FROM THE OFFICE OF ALUMNI & DEVELOPMENT

Back in the 1980’s and 90’s, the Xavier Alumni Association was always one of the top rated Catholic High School organizations in the country regarding percentage of participation of donors to the Annual Fund Drive and Financial Aid Fund. From 1995 to 1997, Xavier was in the top 1% of all Catholic High Schools in the United States. Graduates of this fabulous High School were so proud of that accomplishment!

Our primary goal going forward is to significantly improve the current rate of participation and to try to get back to similar levels of giving that we experienced in the past. To do that, we know this Office needs to do a better job building and maintaining relations with our graduates and to better serve your needs. We pledge to do everything in our power to do that and to earn your support again, or for the first time, in the years ahead.

As starters, we are reinstating a system of Class Reps, rebuilding the Alumni Board of Directors, planning to help more with organizing Class Reunions, doing personalized outreach to alumni, and conducting at least quarterly alumni events. That’s a “full plate” for us right now, but we would love to hear from you if you have any specific ideas that you think will help us to achieve our goals.

Please feel free to contact any of us at the Alumni & Development Office by calling 860-346-7735, Ext. 743 or email [email protected] or [email protected].

AROUND & ABOUT

- Greg Woods ’73 gave a powerful presentation to our student body and staff as part of celebration of Black History Month. To read the story, CLICK HERE.

- The 32nd Annual Black & White Auction sponsored by the Xavier Home & School Association will take place on March 23, 2024 in the Kohs Gymnasium. Get your tickets to the even, HERE.

- The Wrestling team won their fourth consecutive Class L State title and third consecutive CIAC State Open Championship in February!

- The Indoor Track and Field team captured their third consecutive Class L State title last month!

- Ticket sales for the 25K Cash Raffle have begun! Click here for more information and to get your tickets today!

- Xavier has many Eagle Scouts walking our halls! Click here to read about three of our dedicated Falcons!

ALUMNI UPDATES

- Congratulations to Mike Kohs ’84 on being named the 2024 SCC Boys Basketball Coach of the Year!

- Ryan Child ’17 graduated last May from Albany College of Pharmacy and Health Sciences with honors and became a Pharmacist in July of 2023. Ryan currently works as a Clinical Pharmacist for Advent Health in Florida.

-  PJ Cavaliere ’20 was recognized as the lone graduating senior affiliated with the Villanova Men’s Basketball team for the class of 2024. PJ has been a student manager with the program since 2021, initially under the direction of Naismith Hall of Fame Coach Jay Wright, followed by current Head Coach Kyle Neptune. Baker Dunleavy, General Manager of Villanova Men’s and Women’s Basketball, presented PJ's jersey to him during a halftime court ceremony during Senior Night at the Finneran Pavilion on campus. He was joined by his parents, Mary and Carl Cavaliere, brother Alex Cavaliere ’18, and cousin Christina Vuocolo.

NEW Alumni Spotlight: Provide some detail on you or a classmate, your family, career and accomplishments. Your info will be shared with students in the main hallway and on other school media outlets. Click here to submit your spotlight today! For more information contact [email protected].

IN MEMORIAM

William (Bill) Hoey, Sr. '75. To read the obituary, click HERE.

Each month we remember those who have died recently and those who are called to our attention. Please keep them, their families, and friends in your prayers. The full list of alumni faculty and staff memorials is on the webpage at MEMORIALS.

MORE XAVIER NEWS & CONNECTIONS

Go to xavierhighschool.org, and follow Xavier High School on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter. For sports news, go to xavierfalcons.com.

XAVIER HIGH SCHOOL PRAYER - read at the close of school each day

Loving Father,

We ask you to protect the students, faculty and staff at Xavier High School.

Guide us to salvation by following the example of Jesus Christ, your Son.

Inspire us with your grace, to seek both academic success and spiritual wisdom as we use your gifts and talents in service to others.

Help us to find the strength and passion to be leaders and pioneers like Theodore James Ryken, the Xaverian Brothers and those who founded our school.

May we, in turn, accept the challenge to spread the Word of God and make the world a better place for all people.

We ask this, through Christ, our Lord. Amen

Saint Francis Xavier pray for us.

  
   - Chris Danko ’11 and Francis Rowland ’11

Xavier High School is part of the Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools (XBSS) network of thirteen high and middle schools in the United States.  To learn more about the XBSS Network go to xbss.org.

CONTACT US

Xavier High School Alumni & Development 181 Randolph Road Middletown CT 06457

Rich Feitel, Director, 860-346-7735 x732, [email protected]

Greg Jaskot ’00, Associate Director, 860-346-7735 x733, [email protected]

Suzanne Berry M ’83, P’18, Office Manager, 860 346 7735 x737, [email protected]

Meet the New Director of Alumni & Development

Rich Feitel here. I’m baaaack! Never thought that I would return to the same position and same office I left when I retired from Xavier nearly 26 years ago. But when President and alumnus Rick Misenti ’72 and Board member Ron Cozean ’81 reached out to me a few weeks ago and asked if I would fill the vacated position of Alumni & Development Director, I just couldn’t say no. This school has been such an important part of my life for nearly 56 years and next to my immediate family, there is nothing I love more. The years I spent here from 1968 to 1997, whether in the classroom, coaching, or as the Alumni & Development Director, are filled with so many fond memories. And most of my closest friends today are ones that I established during my years at Xavier High School.

I am thrilled to join Rick, Assistant Alumni & Development Director Greg Jaskot ’00, and Office Manager Suzanne Berry and look forward to working with them going forward. All share my passion for this incredible high school, and we vow to work tirelessly to rebuild the Alumni Association to better serve your needs and to get financial support back to the levels achieved in the ‘80’s and ‘90’s.

Greg and I will be reaching out to you in the weeks ahead for your physical and financial support. We would like to reestablish the “Class Reps” system and hopefully get at least 2 alums from each class to serve in these positions. We would also like to form Reunion Committees for those classes that will be celebrating reunions this year or next year. Please let us know if you are interested in serving in either of these positions. Just call the Alumni & Development Office at 860-346-7735, ext. 737 and we’ll put you to work. Most of all, we will need your financial support to fund educational and athletic programs and provide additional financial aid so Xavier can continue to flourish in the years ahead.

I look forward to reconnecting with many of you now that I’m back and meeting many of the younger graduates from the Class of 1998 to the present. Please feel free to drop by or give me or Greg a call. Greg can be reached at 860-346-7735, Ext.733. I can be reached at Ext. 732.

AROUND & ABOUT

- Xavier celebrated the beginning of Lent with a special Ash Wednesday Mass earlier this week. Click here to view some photos from the day on Facebook.

- Xavier Announced our SECOND QUARTER HONOR ROLL last week! Congratulations to the 294 students that earned recognition for their hard work in the classroom! Click here to learn more.

- The 32nd Annual Black & White Auction sponsored by the Xavier Home & School Association will take place on March 23, 2024 in the Kohs Gymnasium.

- On Friday, February 2, we held our annual Junior Ring Ceremony. Click here to view a photo gallery of the special day for the Class of 2025!

- The Wrestling team won their seventh straight SCC Championship this past Saturday!

- The Indoor Track and Field team captured their third consecutive Class L State Title last weekend!

- Ticket sales for the 25K Cash Raffle have begun! Click here for more information and to get your tickets today!

ALUMNI UPDATES

- Congratulations to Anthony Caramanica ‘16 on his marriage! Anthony tied the knot with Hannah Theriault on January 13. His Xavier classmate Kevin Lawrence ‘16 was the best man!

- Vincent Cervoni ’86 was elected as the Mayor of Wallingford!

- William Kaye ‘20, George Luke ‘20, and James Dickman ‘20 traveled to the Vatican over Christmas break and attended the pontifical mass for the nativity.

- Emmett Coughlin ’13 graduated with a medical degree from University College Dublin in 2023 and is now working at Galway University Hospital. Dr. Coughlin recently presented joint research at the Metabolic Surgery Conference in Dublin, Ireland.

- Michael Celentano ’19 graduated from Marist College in 2023 and is currently working as an Undergraduate Admissions Counselor at Iona University in New Rochelle, New York.

- Connor Dwyer ’19 graduated from Fordham in 2022 and he is currently working for the Houston Astros as a Coordinator of Baseball Operations.

- Joshua Fazzino ’18 graduated from Bryant University with a degree in Business Administration in 2022. He is currently a Financial Advisor for LPL Financial.

- Carson Waldron ’20 is the President and Editor-in-Chief of MODE Magazine, Fordham University’s Fashion & Lifestyle Magazine. He will graduate from the Fordham Gabelli School of Business this spring.

- Andrew Miano ’17 graduated from UConn Law School in 2023 and he is working in the Attorney General’s office in Connecticut.

- Jalen Jones ’11 is going to be a contestant on Family Feud tonight (February 16) at 6:00 pm EST! Tune in and support a fellow Falcon!

NEW Alumni Spotlight: Provide some detail on you or a classmate, your family, career and accomplishments. Your info will be shared with students in the main hallway and on other school media outlets. Click here to submit your spotlight today! For more information contact [email protected].

IN MEMORIAM

Thomas Kennedy ’67. To read the obituary, click HERE.

Scott McEnaney ’80. To read the obituary, click HERE.

Each month we remember those who have died recently and those who are called to our attention. Please keep them, their families, and friends in your prayers. The full list of alumni faculty and staff memorials is on the webpage at MEMORIALS.

MORE XAVIER NEWS & CONNECTIONS

Go to xavierhighschool.org, and follow Xavier High School on LinkedIn, Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. For sports news, go to XavierFalcons.com.

XAVIER HIGH SCHOOL PRAYER - read at the close of school each day

Loving Father,

We ask you to protect the students, faculty and staff at Xavier High School.

Guide us to salvation by following the example of Jesus Christ, your Son.

Inspire us with your grace, to seek both academic success and spiritual wisdom as we use your gifts and talents in service to others.

Help us to find the strength and passion to be leaders and pioneers like Theodore James Ryken, the Xaverian Brothers and those who founded our school.

May we, in turn, accept the challenge to spread the Word of God and make the world a better place for all people.

We ask this, through Christ, our Lord. Amen

Saint Francis Xavier pray for us.

- Chris Danko ’11 and Francis Rowland ’11

Xavier High School is part of the Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools (XBSS) network of thirteen high and middle schools in the United States.  To learn more about the XBSS Network go to xbss.org.

CONTACT US

Xavier High School Alumni & Development 181 Randolph Road Middletown, CT 06457

Rich Feitel, Director, 860-346-7735 x732, [email protected]
Greg Jaskot ’00, Associate Director, 860-346-7735 x733, [email protected]

Suzanne Berry M ’83, P’18, Office Manager, 860 346 7735 x737, [email protected]

AROUND & ABOUT

- The Xavier High School Car Club presents the annual EJK Car Show on Saturday, May 4, 2024 in the front parking lot. Large and Small Trophy Sponsors are being solicited now.  Please contact the Alumni & Development office at 860 346 7735, if you wish to support the Car Show through the purchase of a large trophy for $100, or a small trophy for $50. Cars of all classes and years are welcome at the show and eligible for prizes. The entry fee is 10 per vehicle.

- Ticket sales for the 25K Cash Raffle have begun! Click here for more information and to get your tickets today!

- Xavier is hosting its third and final Open House on Tuesday, February 13, from 6-7:30 p.m. Registration is already underway. Please share this link with family and friends that are interested in joining our community! 

- During December, Xavier celebrated Founder’s Week along with the other 12 Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools. Click here to read about everything special we did on campus for the annual event.

- Matthew Ferrucci ’23 is a recent example of a Xavier alumni success story. He is currently a freshman at the United States Merchant Marine Academy. To read about how his experience at Xavier helped guide him on his journey, click here.

- Xavier is excited to celebrate Catholic School’s Week beginning on January 28!

- The 32nd Annual Black & White Auction sponsored by the Xavier Home & School Association will take place on March 23, 2024 in the Kohs Gymnasium.

ALUMNI UPDATES

EJ Adametz ’17 is living his dream as a firefighter in Waterbury. Click here to read his inspiring story.

Alex Cavaliere ’18 has been appointed to the Connecticut Section of the PGA’s Board of Directors. He is a PGA certified teaching professional at Lyman Orchards Golf Club in Middlefield, Connecticut, and he’s also the Assistant Golf Coach at Wesleyan University.

Julen Lujambio ’19 graduated from Cal Tech with a degree in Computer Science in 2023. He is currently an Associate Product Manager at Atlassian.

Jordan Leonardi ’19 was the recipient of the Ross Mayer Scholarship for Excellence in Academics from the UConn Department of Economics in the College of Liberal Arts and Sciences.

Maxwell Schroeder ’20 is a Student Video Sports Content Producer at the University of Kentucky, where he will graduate this spring, and he also recently had an internship with the College Football Playoff producing video content.

NEW Alumni Spotlight: Provide some detail on you or a classmate, your family, career and accomplishments. Your info will be shared with students in the main hallway and on other school media outlets. Click here to submit your spotlight today! For more information contact alumnidevelopment@xavierhighschool.org.

IN MEMORIAM

Sheila Parmelee, former Xavier school nurse. To read the obituary, click HERE.

Kieran Cahill '72. To read the obituary, click HERE. 

Daniel Biesak '85. To read the obituary, click HERE. 

Michael Rzegocki '69. To read the obituary, click HERE.

Fr. Michael Opalacz '68. To read the obituary, click HERE.

Timothy O'Rourke '67. To read the obituary, click HERE.

Each month we remember those who have died recently and those who are called to our attention. Please keep them, their families, and friends in your prayers. The full list of alumni faculty and staff memorials is on the webpage at MEMORIALS.

MORE XAVIER NEWS & CONNECTIONS

Go to xavierhighschool.org, and follow Xavier High School on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.  For sports news, go to xavierfalcons.com.

XAVIER HIGH SCHOOL PRAYER - read at the close of school each day

Loving Father,

We ask you to protect the students, faculty and staff at Xavier High School.

Guide us to salvation by following the example of Jesus Christ, your Son.

Inspire us with your grace, to seek both academic success and spiritual wisdom as we use your gifts and talents in service to others.

Help us to find the strength and passion to be leaders and pioneers like Theodore James Ryken, the Xaverian Brothers and those who founded our school.

May we, in turn, accept the challenge to spread the Word of God and make the world a better place for all people.

We ask this, through Christ, our Lord. Amen

Saint Francis Xavier pray for us.

   - Chris Danko ’11 and Francis Rowland ’11

Xavier High School is part of the Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools (XBSS) network of thirteen high and middle schools in the United States.  To learn more about the XBSS Network go to xbss.org.

CONTACT US

 Xavier High School Alumni & Development 181 Randolph Road Middletown CT 06457

Liz Whitty M ’75, Director, 860-346-7735 x732, [email protected]

Greg Jaskot ’00, Associate Director, 860-346-7735 x733, [email protected]

Suzanne Berry M ’83, P’18, Office Manager, 860 346 7735 x737, [email protected]

PHILANTHROPY ADVISOR

End of Year Gift Giving

Remember to maximize your charitable tax benefits by making your charitable gift to Xavier before the end of the calendar year.

You can support Xavier High in many ways that can be advantageous to you and the school. More people are creating family foundations, trusts and donor advised funds for the tax benefits they offer while at the same time helping the school. Gifts directed to financial aid or to the Xavier Annual Fund for unrestricted use go the longest way toward strengthening our ability to provide this education for more students.

IRA Required Minimum Distributions given to Xavier are another way to help students while fulfilling the requirements of the IRA.

When planning for the long term you can name Xavier in your bequest, trust, or as an IRA beneficiary to help students and lessen tax liability for your heirs.

Please think of Xavier as you make your year-end plans. Thank you for your continued support, and we look forward to celebrating Falcon Giving Days with you for the remainder of the month.

AROUND & ABOUT

- President Rick Misenti ’72 hosted Xavier’s first-ever Holiday Appreciation in his office for faculty and staff on Thursday, December 7. Click here to read more about the start of a new tradition.  

- Justin Legere ’15 has started to make a name for himself in the world of Strongman competitions. Read about his journey here.

- Spanish teacher Marta Castro-Maguder was named Xavier’s 2023 Theodore James Ryken Award winner. Read more about Marta and the award here.

- We are proud to release the First Quarter Honor Roll. See the current Falcons making an impact in the classroom here.

- Save the date! The Artie Kohs Basketball Tournament is set for Wednesday, December 27 & Thursday, December 28! There will be a basketball alumni reunion during the tournament. 

- Ticket sales for the 25K Cash Raffle Begin on Tuesday, January 2. Stay tuned for more information!

NEW Alumni Spotlight: Provide some detail on you, your family, career and accomplishments. Your info will be shared with students in the main hallway, and will be shared on other school media outlets. Click here to submit your spotlight today! For more information contact alumnidevelopment@xavierhighschool.org.

IN MEMORIAM

Peter Golanski, former Xavier and Mercy Coach. To read the obituary, click HERE.

Each month we remember those who have died recently and those who are called to our attention. Please keep them, their families, and friends in your prayers. The full list of alumni faculty and staff memorials is on the webpage at MEMORIALS.

MORE XAVIER NEWS & CONNECTIONS

Go to xavierhighschool.org, and follow Xavier High School on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.  For sports news, go to xavierfalcons.com.

XAVIER HIGH SCHOOL PRAYER - read at the close of school each day

Loving Father,

We ask you to protect the students, faculty and staff at Xavier High School.

Guide us to salvation by following the example of Jesus Christ, your Son.

Inspire us with your grace, to seek both academic success and spiritual wisdom as we use your gifts and talents in service to others.

Help us to find the strength and passion to be leaders and pioneers like Theodore James Ryken, the Xaverian Brothers and those who founded our school.

May we, in turn, accept the challenge to spread the Word of God and make the world a better place for all people.

We ask this, through Christ, our Lord. Amen

Saint Francis Xavier pray for us.

   - Chris Danko ’11 and Francis Rowland ’11

Xavier High School is part of the Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools (XBSS) network of thirteen high and middle schools in the United States.  To learn more about the XBSS Network go to xbss.org.

CONTACT US

 Xavier High School Alumni & Development 181 Randolph Road Middletown CT 06457

Liz Whitty M ’75, Director, 860-346-7735 x732, [email protected]

Greg Jaskot ’00, Associate Director, 860-346-7735 x733, [email protected]

Suzanne Berry M ’83, P’18, Office Manager, 860 346 7735 x737, [email protected]

PHILANTHROPY ADVISOR

We wanted to share some exciting news with you about Falcon Giving Days. This year, we're doing something a little different and rolling out Falcon Giving Month in December. Throughout the month, you'll hear from various members of our community, including faculty, staff, administrators, and Board Members, about why they believe in supporting Xavier.

Xavier has been providing a top-notch education for young men for over 60 years. Our focus on the whole person--mind, body, and spirit--has helped shape countless leaders who make a positive impact in their communities. Your support plays a crucial role in fostering the growth of each young man who walks our halls.

We believe in the power of potential and strive to provide an inspirational teaching and learning environment that prepares our students for success after graduation. Our donors exemplify the importance of using our talents in service of others, and we are proud to count them as part of our Xavier community.

Thank you for your continued support, and we look forward to celebrating Falcon Giving Month with you this December.

AROUND & ABOUT

- Will Levis ’18 dazzles in his NFL debut. Levis has been named the starter for the Tennessee Titans. Read about his impressive appearance against the Atlanta Falcons here. Did you know that Xavier is the ONLY high school in the country with two quarterbacks on NFL rosters.

- We have a proud tradition of service and servant leadership here at Xavier. Click here to learn more about some of the service work our Falcons are doing in the local community.

- The cross country team had another successful fall campaign. The team finished third at the New England Championships and Jack Ouellette earned All-New England honors. The squad also captured their fifth straight Class L state title in October.

- The soccer team continued its winning ways, taking home their third straight SCC Championship earlier this month.

- In late September, Xavier High School freshman Redmond Day traveled with his mother and older brother to Raleigh, North Carolina to attend the Kids on Bluegrass Program for mandolin during the International Bluegrass Music Association's (IBMA) World of Bluegrass week-long conference. Read about Redmond’s experience in the Tar Heel State here.

- This year, we’re rolling out a new series taking alumni, parents and potential families into our classrooms. Take a step into Mr. Markham’s AP Bio lab here.

- The SFX & Heritage Societies Reception is scheduled for December 7 at The Griswold Inn in Essex. For more information on those societies and the event please contact Liz Whitty.

- Save the date! The Kohs Basketball Tournament is set for Wednesday, December 27 & Thursday, December 28! There will be a basketball alumni reunion during the tournament. 

- Ticket sales for the 25K Cash Raffle Begin on Tuesday, January 2. Stay tuned for more information!

ALUMNI UPDATES

Justin Legere ’15 has made waves in the world of Strongman competitions. Recently, he came in fourth-place in the 2023 America's Strongest Man event held in Orlando, Florida.

Back in May, Matt Zampini ’12 won his second Sports Emmy Award working as a Content Producer on SportsCenter!

Ryan Solomon ’21 got called up from the Quinnipiac club hockey team to join the nationally-ranked Bobcats as their third goaltender last weekend again Yale. Solomon will be with the team for the rest of the semester and he’ll be wearing number 33. Read about Ryan’s story here.

NEW Alumni Spotlight: Provide some detail on you, your family, career and accomplishments. Your info will be shared with students in the main hallway, and will be shared on other school media outlets. Click here to submit your spotlight today! For more information contact alumnidevelopment@xavierhighschool.org.

IN MEMORIAM

Matt Natale ’88. To read the obituary, click HERE.

Joseph McCabe ’69. To read the obituary, click HERE. 

Steven Fillmore ’73, brother of Skip Fillmore ’71. To read the obituary, click HERE. 

Anthony Paguni ’74. To read the obituary, click HERE.

Each month we remember those who have died recently and those who are called to our attention. Please keep them, their families, and friends in your prayers. The full list of alumni faculty and staff memorials is on the webpage at MEMORIALS.

MORE XAVIER NEWS & CONNECTIONS

Go to xavierhighschool.org, and follow Xavier High School on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.  For sports news, go to xavierfalcons.com.

XAVIER HIGH SCHOOL PRAYER - read at the close of school each day

Loving Father,

We ask you to protect the students, faculty and staff at Xavier High School.

Guide us to salvation by following the example of Jesus Christ, your Son.

Inspire us with your grace, to seek both academic success and spiritual wisdom as we use your gifts and talents in service to others.

Help us to find the strength and passion to be leaders and pioneers like Theodore James Ryken, the Xaverian Brothers and those who founded our school.

May we, in turn, accept the challenge to spread the Word of God and make the world a better place for all people.

We ask this, through Christ, our Lord. Amen

Saint Francis Xavier pray for us.

   - Chris Danko ’11 and Francis Rowland ’11

Xavier High School is part of the Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools (XBSS) network of thirteen high and middle schools in the United States.  To learn more about the XBSS Network go to xbss.org.

CONTACT US

 Xavier High School Alumni & Development 181 Randolph Road Middletown CT 06457

Liz Whitty M ’75, Director, 860-346-7735 x732, [email protected]

Greg Jaskot ’00, Associate Director, 860-346-7735 x733, [email protected]

Suzanne Berry M ’83, P’18, Office Manager, 860 346 7735 x737, [email protected]

AROUND & ABOUT

Xavier’s Second & Final Cluster Meeting

We’re excited to roll out a new initiative for the 2023-24 academic year and we want the Xavier community and their friends to join us in Middletown on Thursday, October 26 at 7:00 pm. This is an excellent opportunity to hear about the vision for our school and receive an important announcement regarding Xavier's future. There will also be a question and answer panel featuring students, a parent, faculty, staff and counselors. No question will go unanswered! I hope you can join us in person or virtually for this event.

The 2023 Alumni Golf Classic on Friday Sept. 8, raised more funds for Xavier students than ever before. A record $200,644, and still counting is earmarked for financial aid. Thank you Rich Feitel, Greg Jaskot, list all here. Check out the photo gallery.

Mark Your Calendar for Homecoming Football, Saturday, October 28.  Xavier vs Jonathan Law. All alumni, SFX and Heritage Society donors, and Home and School Committee members are invited to the exclusive Annual Homecoming Reception at 11:30am, Game starts at 1pm.

The 2023 Mercy / Xavier Walk-A-Thon is underway! The pledges raised go directly to the Xavier Annual Fund for unrestricted use, which benefits those in need of tuition assistance, as well as in the areas of teaching, learning, and operations. Click here to support Xavier!

Rick Misenti ’72 was formally announced as Xavier’s new President! He becomes the first-ever alumni to lead our school!

Robotics Team Competition Calendar is as follows: CT Competition on Jan 13, 2024 at Wolcott High School; Jan 27, at Windsor High School; Feb 3, at Vernon Center Middle School; Feb 17 at the Hartford Armory, and the New England State Championship April 5 at the Big E Fairgrounds. For more information contact Steve Cunha, Director of Communications.

Xavier was named to the Advanced Placement School Honor Roll! Learn more about the distinction here.

Miss Jayne Anne Vitale was named a recipient of the 2023 Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D. Award for Contributions to Catholic Education. 

ALUMNI UPDATES

Ryan Suprin ’20, Senior and Co-Captain of the Western New England University Soccer Team, will be graduating with a degree in Business Administration. He lives in East Longmeadow, MA.

Mike Dodenhoff ’09, a Lt. Cmdr. in the Navy, will be the lead pilot in a flyover will be the lead pilot during a flyover prior to the Navy - Air Force football game on Saturday in Annapolis! Be sure to tune into CBS at noon EST to check it out!

NEW Alumni Spotlight: Provide some detail on you, your family, career and accomplishments. Your info will be shared with students in the main hallway, and will be shared on other school media outlets. Click here to submit your spotlight today! For more information contact alumnidevelopment@xavierhighschool.org.

IN MEMORIUM

Barbara Hickey, mother of Jay ’76 and Charles ’82 and grandmother of Daniel ’08. To read the obituary click HERE.

Brendan Dunn ’86. Brendan was one of three Dunn brothers that attended Xavier. To read the obituary, click HERE.

John “Rusty” Larson ’68. To read the obituary, click HERE.

Each month we remember those who have died recently and those who are called to our attention. Please keep them, their families, and friends in your prayers. The full list of alumni faculty and staff memorials is on the webpage at MEMORIALS.

MORE XAVIER NEWS & CONNECTIONS

Go to xavierhighschool.org, and follow Xavier High School on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.  For sports news, go to xavierfalcons.com. 

XAVIER HIGH SCHOOL PRAYER - read at the close of school each day

Loving Father,

We ask you to protect the students, faculty and staff at Xavier High School. 

Guide us to salvation by following the example of Jesus Christ, your Son. 

Inspire us with your grace, to seek both academic success and spiritual wisdom as we use your gifts and talents in service to others. 

Help us to find the strength and passion to be leaders and pioneers like Theodore James Ryken, the Xaverian Brothers and those who founded our school. 

May we, in turn, accept the challenge to spread the Word of God and make the world a better place for all people. 

We ask this, through Christ, our Lord. Amen 

Saint Francis Xavier pray for us.

   - Chris Danko ’11 and Francis Rowland ‘11

Xavier High School is part of the Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools (XBSS) network of thirteen high and middle schools in the United States.  To learn more about the XBSS Network go to xbss.org.

CONTACT US

Xavier High School Alumni & Development 181 Randolph Road Middletown CT 06457

Liz Whitty M’75, Director, 860-346-7735 x732, [email protected]
Greg Jaskot ’00, Associate Director, 860-346-7735 x733, [email protected]
Suzanne Berry M’83, Office Manager, 860 346 7735 x737, sberry@xavierhighschool.org

PHILANTHROPY ADVISOR

Don’t you find that every not-for-profit you support asks you for a gift to their annual fund? What is the big deal about annual funds? The Xavier Annual Fund for unrestricted use plays a pivotal role in sustaining and elevating the overall excellence of the institution.

Charitable support that can be used as and when an institution needs is called annual funding.  Whoever came up with that name could have done a better job, but that’s what everyone calls it.  The annual fund for unrestricted use is that bucket of money that can be used as the institution needs, when it needs.  It’s as simple as that. It’s unrestricted. All other donations earmarked by a donor for specific things like athletics, new buildings, research, clubs and the like are restricted for that use only.  Those gifts are powerful too, and gratefully accepted. But for every not-for-profit organization unrestricted gifts are the backbone of their philanthropic support.

It is hard to put a spotlight on exactly what unrestricted gifts do because they go directly into operating budgets and bolster every part of day-to-day operations. Unrestricted annual fund gifts are like the gasoline in your car. It keeps you moving forward.  And, that’s why you are asked by all of your favorite charities to support their annual funds. You keep them moving forward.   

AROUND & ABOUT

Xavier Hosting Town Hall Meeting on Thursday, September 21

We’re excited to roll out a new initiative for the 2023-24 academic year and we want the Xavier community and their friends to join us in Middletown on Thursday, September 21 at 7:00 pm. During this meeting, President Rick Misenti ‘72 will be providing a State of the School address. There will also be a panel discussion featuring school staff and faculty. This will be a great opportunity to ask questions and get answers from those who are directly involved in our students’ education. This meeting is for Xavier families and alumni living in Cromwell, Portland, Marlborough, Hebron, Columbia, Windham, Lebanon, Colchester, East Hampton, Middletown, Middlefield, Durham, Montville and Norwich. Join us to learn about the progress the school has made over the past year and the exciting plans we have for the future. Current families are encouraged to bring friends and families interested in joining the Xavier community. Three other cluster meetings will be held later in the fall for our families living in other cities/towns in Connecticut. For those alumni living outside the state, you can register to join us virtually HERE.

2023 Alumni Golf Classic is Friday, September 8, 2023, at Portland Golf Course. The course is full. Watch for photos online.

Class of '68 55th Reunion is on Sat, Sept 9, 2023 at 5pm at Cafe Luna, Cromwell CT. For more information contact Rusty Larson, Bill Huff, Paul Ulatowski or Ed Burke at alumnidevelopment@xavierhighschool.org.

Annual Grandparent Mass for all Xavier families at the start of school is Sunday, Sept 10, at 10am in the Arthur Kohs Gymnasium. Light refreshments will follow along with information for a new season. The entire Xavier High School community is invited to come back to celebrate Mass together.

Class of ’83 40th Reunion is Fri, Sept 15, and Sat, Sept 16. For more information contact Greg Jaskot at [email protected].

Mercy/Xavier Class of 1978 45th Reunion is Saturday, October 14, 6pm to 11pm, at Café Fiore in Cromwell. To get more information or to register click HERE.

Mark Your Calendar for Homecoming Football, Saturday, October 28.  Xavier vs Jonathan Law. All alumni, SFX and Heritage Society donors, and Home and School Committee members are invited to the exclusive Annual Homecoming Reception at 11:30am, Game starts at 1pm.

ALUMNI UPDATES

Sam Magaziner ’12, has earned the prestigious Ruth L. Kirschstein National Research Service Award (NRSA) F30 Grant from the National Institutes of Health’s National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute (NIH/NHLBI), and a U.S. Fulbright PhD Reaearch Fellowship, where he will work with Nobel Laureate Professor, Aaron Ciechanover of the Technion – Israel Institute of Technology. To read more on Sam’s work click HERE 

Steve Fitzsimmons ’06, is working for the Royal Bank of Canada (RBC), as a portfolio analyst and lives in Brooklyn NY, with his girlfriend Isabel. Steve sends this message to his cousin Anthony Corraccio 25, “eat your vegetables.”  Always good advice from Xavier alumni.

Mark Masselli ’69, donated two copies of the book, “Peace and Health” to the Xavier Alumni Library. One in Spanish and one in English, the book follows Mark’s 50 year journey founding and leading the Community Health Center of Middletown.  Mark and the author, Charles Barber with U.S. Senator John Hickenlooper, who was instrumental in the early days of the health center, just concluded a national book tour. 

Alumni Directory: Update your information for the Alumni Directory by contacting the Alumni & Development team at alumnidevelopment@xavierhighschool.org. If you wish to be included in ENEWS with an alumni update send your contact information, and a brief message regarding your current activities.

IN MEMORIUM

Mary Boucher, wife of former faculty Richard Boucher. To read the obituary click HERE.

John Cordone Jr., Class of ’68.  To read the obituary click HERE.

John Hartke, Class of ’88. To read the obituray click HERE.

Marcin T. Sienko, father of Christian ’15, and Adrian ’20. To read the obituary click HERE.

Vincenzo Lococo, grandfather of Jon ’12 and Kristina, and Dan ’11. To read the obituary click HERE.

Each month we remember those who have died recently and those who are called to our attention. Please keep them, their families, and friends in your prayers. The full list of alumni faculty and staff memorials is on the webpage at MEMORIALS.

MORE XAVIER NEWS & CONNECTIONS

Go to xavierhighschool.org, and follow Xavier High School on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.  For sports news, go to xavierfalcons.com. 

XAVIER HIGH SCHOOL PRAYER - read at the close of school each day

Loving Father,

We ask you to protect the students, faculty and staff at Xavier High School. 

Guide us to salvation by following the example of Jesus Christ, your Son. 

Inspire us with your grace, to seek both academic success and spiritual wisdom as we use your gifts and talents in service to others. 

Help us to find the strength and passion to be leaders and pioneers like Theodore James Ryken, the Xaverian Brothers and those who founded our school. 

May we, in turn, accept the challenge to spread the Word of God and make the world a better place for all people. 

We ask this, through Christ, our Lord. Amen 

Saint Francis Xavier pray for us.

          - Chris Danko ’11 and Francis Rowland ‘11

Xavier High School is part of the Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools (XBSS) network of thirteen high and middle schools in the United States.  To learn more about the XBSS Network go to xbss.org.

CONTACT US

Xavier High School Alumni & Development 181 Randolph Road Middletown CT 06457

Liz Whitty M’75, Director, 860 346 7735 x732, [email protected]

Greg Jaskot ’00, Associate Director, 860 346 7735 x733, [email protected]

Suzanne Berry M’83, Office Manager, 860 346 7735 x737 [email protected]

PHILANTHROPY ADVISOR

Did you know that your gifts of charitable support to the Xavier Annual Fund are counted on to bolster the school’s budget each year? Annual Fund gifts support every academic department, sport, club, and day-to-day operations, as well as addressing all those unexpected surprises that can occur in 60 year old buildings. 

Your annual fund gifts make Xavier work for every student every day. Consider making another annual fund gift, or your first today by going on line HERE. No gift is too small, everyone’s participation is important. Together we make miracles happen. Thank you.

AROUND & ABOUT

Camden NJ Service Trip June 12-16

Ten students and two adult chaperones traveled to Camden, NJ in June. The group helped at sites in Camden, Philadelphia, and surrounding areas included Stars Adult Day Care Center, Mercy Neighborhood Center, Cathedral Soup Kitchen, Urban Promise School, Food Pantry and Thrift Store, and a local community garden. With the trip host, Romero Center Ministries, students learned about the root causes of poverty, and the challenges faced by those living in it. College students from Fordham Prep, BC High, and the University of Detroit Jesuit High School, worked alongside Xavier students. Side trips to Independence Hall, the Liberty Bell, the “Rocky Steps” at the Philadelphia Museum of Art, and Spruce Street Harbor Park were enjoyed, along with Phili Cheese Steaks. The 23-24 service trips will grow to three with the addition of a new trip to North Dakota in April.

23-24 Peer Ministers Announced by Campus Ministry Office

The Peer Ministry Team has been an important part of the Xavier student community for many years. Peer ministers are servant leaders and role models, who represent Xavier High School within and outside of the school. Membership on the Peer Ministry Team implies assuming personal responsibility to carry out ministry duties in a responsible way, and to the best of each student’s ability.

Congratulations to the Xavier Class of 2024 Peer Ministers:

Trey Barbieri     Noah Barnhart     Johnny Bevilacqua     Nate Brasky 

Cormac Burke     Gianni Brescio     Lucas Callinan     Luke Carabetta     

Brendan Clow     Thomas Collison     Simon Cordes     Pedro Delgado     

Matt Devany     Kiernan Driscoll     Tristan Ferguson     Ryan Gerardi     

Ramon Guzman-Toro     Euan Hall     Bryston Hester     Peter Kelly

Nate Kerr     John Lagana     Jack Larkin     Nico LaRosa     Will McDougall     

Caiden Olmstead     Gabe Panora     Jacob Pasato     Henry Peeler     

Tommy Pullman     Kevin Russ     Luca Santarsiero     Christian Torres     

Grady Vogt     John Wamaster

Tim Boyle QB/WR 1-Day Camp is July 8, for grades 5-12. 

Youth Robotics Camp is July 17 – 21 for grades 5-8. Click HERE for more information. is July 8, for grades 5-12. 

Youth Sports Camps are in July.  Baseball, basketball, football, soccer,  and strength and conditioning for grades 5-8. Click HERE for more information.

2023 Alumni Golf Classic is Friday, September 8, 2023, at Portland Golf Course. Go to xavierhighschool.org to purchase your sponsorship. See you in September.

Class of '68 55th Reunion is on Sat, Sept 9, 2023 at 5pm at Cafe Luna, Cromwell CT. For more information contact Rusty Larson, Bill Huff, Paul Ulatowski or Ed Burke at [email protected]rg.

Class of ’83 40th Reunion is Fri, Sept 15, and Sat, Sept 16. For more information contact Greg Jaskot at [email protected].

ALUMNI UPDATES

Leon Vinci, PhD, ’68, has been appointed as a member of the Virginia Western Community College Scholarship Advisory Board of the Virginia Western Educational Foundation Inc.

Big Falcon, Van Auger ’16, graduated Yale Law School while Little Falcon, Pier Bos ’19, graduated West Point, U.S. Military Academy in May. These Falcon Brothers connected again to celebrate their achievements. 

John Kee Vose ’19, former President of the Xavier Car Club graduated from Salve Regina in Newport RI in May. He is entering the graduate business management program at Salve this Fall.

Kacy Lombard ’19, at The Georgia Institute of Technology is the lead developer of a new mobile app called Bedtime AI – Kids Reading.  Released through AppStore, Bedtime AI allows for the creation of custom bedtime stories for kids.

Jose Miguel Lorenzo Garcia (an International Student) ‘19, from the Canary Islands, is now working in northern Spain as a naval engineer.

Matt Berry ’18, graduated early from Southern Connecticut State University in ’21, with a B.S. in Chemistry. After working for Walgreens as a Pharmacy Technician, Matt is now an Ophthalmic Technician with New Haven Retina Associates in Hamden CT.

Student & Alumni Internships: Consider hiring alumni and current students if your place of work has an opportunity for internships. This is a great way to help build a career, and get new well-trained employees. Contact [email protected] for details.

XHS Linked In & ENEWS: Remember to follow us on Linked In to share your career news, and to strengthen networking opportunities for all alumni, recent graduates, and current students. 

Alumni Directory: Update your information for the Alumni Directory.  New graduates received a young alumni directory for the last four years of graduates to maintain links as they move into their undergraduate educations, careers, and branches of service.

IN MEMORIUM

Fred Miller ’67, spouse of Katherine. To read the obituary click HERE.

Patricia Miller, mother of Laura Miller-Cozean and Ron Cozean '81, and grandfather of Robbie Cozean '20. To read the obituary click HERE.

Nina Gunn, mother of Michael Muzio '83 and Jeff Muzio '81. To read the obituary click HERE.

Norbert Bissonnette, spouse of Sonja, and father of Norbert '81 To read the obituary click HERE.

John Campbell ’77, spouse of Heidi, and father of Tom '79 To read the obituary click HERE.

Susan Jane Omicioli, spouse of Anthony '68, and grandfather of Bryan '01. To read the obituary click HERE.

Correction: Last month, Nathan Pitruzzello ’14 was omitted from the memorial for his grandmother, Santa Pitruzzello.

Each month we remember those who have died recently and those who are called to our attention. Please keep them, their families, and friends in your prayers. The full list of alumni faculty and staff memorials is on the webpage at MEMORIALS.

MORE NEWS

Go to xavierhighschool.org, and Xavier High School on Linked In, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.  For sports news, go to xavierfalcons.com. 

XAVIER HIGH SCHOOL PRAYER - read at the close of school each day

 Loving Father,

We ask you to protect the students, faculty and staff at Xavier High School. 

Guide us to salvation by following the example of Jesus Christ, your Son. 

Inspire us with your grace, to seek both academic success and spiritual wisdom as we use your gifts and talents in service to others. 

Help us to find the strength and passion to be leaders and pioneers like Theodore James Ryken, the Xaverian Brothers and those who founded our school. 

May we, in turn, accept the challenge to spread the Word of God and make the world a better place for all people. 

We ask this, through Christ, our Lord. Amen 

Saint Francis Xavier pray for us.

          - Chris Danko ’11 and Francis Rowland ‘11

Xavier High School is part of the Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools (XBSS) network of thirteen high and middle schools in the United States.  To learn more about the XBSS Network go to xbss.org.

AROUND & ABOUT

Youth Robotics Camp is July 17 – 21 for grades 5-8. Click HERE for more information.

Youth Sports Camps is in July.  Baseball, basketball, football, soccer, volleyball and strength training for grades 5-8. Click HERE for more information

Xavier Heritage Society click HERE, recognizes donors who make, or pledge, gifts in perpetuity to support Xavier students. Gifts like endowed funds, bequests, life insurance policies, and many others create a support network that lasts forever. All who express this deep commitment are added to the Heritage Society Honor Roll of Donors whenever they make these plans. Please let the advancement team know if you have named Xavier in your family’s estate planning.

Xavier Mathletes Varsity came in 1st in the CT State Math Meet on April 4.  Varsity high scorer, winning a $500 award, was Sotirios Paul ’23.  Sophomores Ben Curiel ’25, and Petros Paul tied for 1st Place Underclassmen. Josh Ray ’25 tied for 2nd Place Underclassmen. Junior Varsity Mathletes  also came in 1st. Outstanding performers were Paul ‘25, Raj ‘25, and Zander Bos ’25, and Patrick Manning ‘26.

Eric J. Kalber Car Show is Saturday, May 6 from 10am to 2pm at Xavier High School. Rain date is Sunday, May 7.  All vehicle classes are welcome. All proceeds go to the Eric J. Kalber Scholarship Fund. Food, Fun and Trophies. $10. car entry fee, $1. spectator fee.  

2nd Annual Michael P. Doyle Memorial Golf Classic is June 23, 2023 at the Tunxis Country Club in Farmington. For more information go to MPD. 

2023 Alumni Golf Classic is Friday, September 8, 2023, Portland Golf Course lead sponsorship solicitations being soon. See you in September.

ALUMNI UPDATES

Xavier High Seminarians: Anthony Caruso ’19, 3rd Philosophy, is serving at Church of the Resurrection, Wallingford. Mitchell Kendrioski ’12, Seminarian, 1st Theology, serving at Saint John Bosco Parish, Branford.

Boston Alumni Reception: Thursday, June 1, 2023, 6-8pm at MARCUM Accountants Advisors, 53 State Street, 17th Fl. Hosts Douglas and Diane Farrington P'05 and '07, and Kevin Farrington '07.  

Class of '68 55th Reunion is set for Sat, Sept, 9, at Cafe Luna in Cromwell.  Mark your calendar.  Rusty Larson and Paul Ulatowski will be leading the committee to gather the troops in the Fall of 2023. For more information contact [email protected].

Student & Alumni Internships: Consider hiring alumni and current students if your place of work has an opportunity for internships. This is a great way to help build a career, and get new well-trained employees. Contact [email protected] for details.

XHS Linked In & ENEWS: Remember to follow us on Linked In to share your career news, and to strengthen networking opportunities for all alumni, recent graduates, and current students. If classmates are not receiving this e-newsletter, send it to them. 

IN MEMORIUM

Brother John F. Kerr C.F.X., Xavier Principal from 1967 through 1975. To read the obituary click HERE.

Stacia Bogdan, mother of Frank ’67. To read the obituary click HERE.

Mary Lou Dixon, predeceased by her son Jon ’92, and mother of David ’89 and Chris ‘95. To read the obituary click HERE.

George C. Kalber, father of Robert ’74, and Stephen ’78. Father-in-law of Stephen Johnson ’78, and grandfather of David Johnson ’06. George was predeceased by his grandson, Eric Kalber ’04 for whom the Annual EJK Car Show is named.  To read the obituary click HERE.

Each month we remember those who have died recently and those who are called to our attention. Please keep them, their families, and friends in your prayers. The full list of alumni faculty and staff memorials is on the webpage at MEMORIALS.

REMINDERS

On-Line Donors:  If you make charitable gifts on-line, you will see a new, faster tax receipting system. Your thank you reply email will now include all the tax information you need for annual reporting to the IRS, eliminating the need for mailing hard copy receipts. On-line purchases such as golf sponsorships will continue to receive hard copy receipts outlining the allowable IRS tax credits.

For More News: Go to xavierhighschool.org, and Xavier High School on Linked In, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.  If you are looking for sports news go to xavierfalcons.com. 

XAVIER HIGH SCHOOL PRAYER - read at the close of school each day

 Loving Father,

We ask you to protect the students, faculty and staff at Xavier High School. 

Guide us to salvation by following the example of Jesus Christ, your Son. 

Inspire us with your grace, to seek both academic success and spiritual wisdom as we use your gifts and talents in service to others. 

Help us to find the strength and passion to be leaders and pioneers like Theodore James Ryken, the Xaverian Brothers and those who founded our school. 

May we, in turn, accept the challenge to spread the Word of God and make the world a better place for all people. 

We ask this, through Christ, our Lord. Amen 

 Saint Francis Xavier pray for us.

- Chris Danko ’11 and Francis Rowland ‘11

Xavier High School is part of the Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools (XBSS) network of thirteen high and middle schools in the United States.  To learn more about the XBSS Network go to xbss.org.

AROUND & ABOUT

31st Annual Black and White Auction: Saturday, March 25 at 6pm. For tickets click HERE.

25K CASH RAFFLE time is running out: Go to: TICKET. 

Buy your ticket before 12noon, April 2, 2023. All ticket numbers will be issued by that afternoon for the Monday April 3, 11am drawing. Check your spam and junk mail if you do not see the email in your inbox by that time. Any tickets purchased after April 2, 12noon, will not be issued a ticket number. Those buyers will be contacted by the Advancement Office of a refund. GOOD LUCK. 

Student Spring Art Show & Concert: Tuesday, April 25 at 7pm, in the gym and front foyer. Come back. It's a great performance.

Xavier Musicians submit for the National Jazz Festival. To see their video go to (https://vimeo.com/802119141/ad2f081820).

The 16th Annual Eric J. Kalber Car Show is scheduled for Saturday, May 6 from 10am to 2pm at Xavier High School. The rain date is Sunday, May 7.  All vehicle classes are welcome. All proceeds go to the Eric J. Kalber Scholarship Fund. Food, Fun and Trophies. $10. car entry fee, $1. per person spectator fee.  

The Second Annual Michael P. Doyle Memorial Golf Classic is June 23, 2023 at the Tunxis Country Club in Farmington. For more information go to MPD. 

Student Phonathon:  2023 Student Phonathon forms continue to be mailed.  Thank you to all who have responded, and to those who have yet to receive their request.  

XHS Needs Spanish & French Teachers: FT and PT positions considered. Ideal candidates have passion for working with adolescent boys in a Catholic, college-prep setting; can support and uphold the Catholic mission, and a Xaverian educational community; posseses a bachelor's or preferrably advanced degree in Spanish and/or French; has high school teaching experience with superior interpersonal skills; is adept at using technology in a learning setting; and is open to a role in the community outside the classroom. Send the following to Mr. Brendan Donahue, Principal, [email protected]: resume, cover letter, statement of educational philosophy, transcripts, and three letters of recommendation.

Knights of Columbus Silver City Council #2 offers a scholarship for freshman year for students entering a Catholic high school. The award is not renewable. Applicant eligibility rules are: must be a practicing Catholic, and resident of Meriden CT, or a practicing Catholic who is a child or grandchild of a member in good standing of Council #2, or the Father McGivney Assembly #102 regardless of the applicant's town of residence. Inquiries should be made to: Patrick J. McMahon '71, at [email protected].  Applications must be postmarked by May 1, 2023.

2023 Alumni Golf Classic, Friday, September 8, 2023, Portland Golf Course sponsorship solicitations will being soon. See you in September.

ALUMNI UPDATES

Boston Alumni Reception: Thursday, June 1, 2023, 6-8pm at MARCUM Accountants Advisors, 53 State Street, 17th Fl. Hosts Douglas and Diane Farrington P'05 and '07, and Kevin Farrington '07.  

NYC Visits & Alumni Get Together: April 27 & 28. Contact Greg Jaskot at [email protected].

Student & Alumni Internships: Consider alumni and current students if your place of work has an opportunity for internships. This is a great way to help build a career, and get new well-trained employees. Contact [email protected] for details.

XHS Linked In & ENEWS: Remember to follow us on Linked In to share your career news, and to strengthen networking opportunities for all alumni, recent graduates, and current students. If classmates are not receiving this e-newsletter, send it to them. 

IN MEMORIUM

Joanann Gondek, Mother of Justin Brown '23. To read the obituary click HERE.

Kari Vogt, Mother of Grady Vogt '24. To read the obituary click HERE.

David Bartlett, Class of '73. Brother of Daniel '79, and Edward '71. To read the obituary click HERE.

Daniel Clo Bartlett, Class of '79. Brother of David '73 and Edward '71. To read the obituary click HERE.

Shaun Parmelee Sr., Former Class of '89.  Brother of Craig '85, and James '84. Son of Craig and Sheila, XHS School Nurse. To read the obituary click HERE. 

Each month we remember those who have died recently and those who are called to our attention. Please keep them, their families, and friends in your prayers. The full list of alumni faculty and staff memorials is on the webpage at MEMORIALS.

REMINDERS

Stay in Touch: Use [email protected] to update contact information. 

For More News: Go to xavierhighschool.org, and Xavier High School on Linked In, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.  If you are looking for sports news go to xavierfalcons.com. 

XAVIER HIGH SCHOOL PRAYER - read at the close of school each day

Loving Father,

We ask you to protect the students, faculty and staff at Xavier High School. 

Guide us to salvation by following the example of Jesus Christ, your Son. 

Inspire us with your grace, to seek both academic success and spiritual wisdom as we use your gifts and talents in service to others. 

Help us to find the strength and passion to be leaders and pioneers like Theodore James Ryken, the Xaverian Brothers and those who founded our school. 

May we, in turn, accept the challenge to spread the Word of God and make the world a better place for all people. 

We ask this, through Christ, our Lord. Amen 

Saint Francis Xavier pray for us.

- Chris Danko ’11 and Francis Rowland ‘11

Xavier High School is part of the Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools (XBSS) network of thirteen high and middle schools in the United States.  To learn more about the XBSS Network go to xbss.org.

AROUND & ABOUT

Bar Baja Tequila & Taqueria, Dining for Dollars IS BACK, at 945 B Cromwell Avenue, Rocky Hill, 860 372 4040. Owner Fran DelMastro, Class of '79, is giving a 10% rebate to Xavier every time you dine. Mention Dining for Dollars. Manga with intention! 

Consolidated Appropriations Act of 2023 Works for You and Xavier. Under the new law, if you are 70.5 or older you can transfer funds to Xavier and pay no income taxes. The transfer generates neither taxable income, nor a tax deduction. You benefit even if you do not itemize. Since the gift does not count as income, it can reduce your annual income level, which could lower your income taxes. Note that under the Secure Act 2.0, the age at which you are required to make required minimum distributions (RMDs) was raised to 73 for individuals born between 1951 and 1959, and age 75 for those born in 1960 or later. Always Always Always speak to your tax advisor first.

MARK YOUR CALENDAR

Keep these dates in mind as you plan for 2023.

January 3 - April 3, 11am, the 25K CASH RAFFLE tickets are being sold.  Go to xavierhighschool.org and click the link for more details, and to purchase tickets. Last year a current family won. The prior year a faculty / alumni family won. Only 800 tickets will be sold. 

Falcon Phonathon in February: student callers will be engaging alumni in phone calls to expand Falcon Giving Day support from all graduates. Please answer the call when your phone rings in February.  You can support students in any way you feel is most important. Show current students the strength of the Falcon Brotherhood.

March 25, the 31st Annual Black & White Auction hosted by the Xavier Home and School Association.  Lead by Sue Houle, P '23 & P '19, Sue Devany, P ' 24, and Tina Strell, P '24, the auction is LIVE IN PERSON, and jam packed with fun, and loads of exciting auction items for you, family, and friends. Watch for more information on the XHS website.

ALUMNI UPDATES

Alumni Legal Internship Opportunity: Barry, Barall, Taylor & Levesque, LLC in Manchester CT is looking for Xavier alumni who have graduated from college and may have an interest in pursuing a career in law or going to law school, for the position of Legal Assistant. The Legal Assistant will assist attorneys with filing, timekeeping, calendaring of deadlines, and the editing and preparation of filings in the Connecticut Superior and Appellate Courts. Strong organizational skills and attention to detail are a must. This job will be an opportunity to learn the ins and outs of legal practice in Connecticut under some of the state's premier attorneys in Criminal, Appellate, and Ethics Law. Please direct resumes to Mike Massaro '13 at [email protected].

Call for Internships: If your business can benefit from the help of another Xavier Alumnus through paid or unpaid internships please contact us. Internships are a perfect way for recent college grads or current college students to learn about a business or industry first hand. If you wish us to post an opportunity be in touch at [email protected].

The Alumni Library received a signed copy of Losing Tim, How Our Health & Education Systems Failed My Son With Schizophrenia, by Paul Gionfriddo, Class of '71, and former Mayor of Middletown. A powerful account of his family's experience with illness. 

XHS Linked In & ENEWS: Remember to follow us on Linked In to share your career news, and to strengthen networking opportunities for all alumni, recent graduates, and current students. If classmates are not receiving this e-newsletter, send it to them. 

The Alumni, Faculty & Staff Library would be a great place to house a copy of your publication.  If you are an author send us a copy of your book - a signed copy would be even better. We will proudly showcase it in our library. 

Stanley W. Wyskiel, Father of Alexander, Class of '16. To read the obituary click HERE.

Marianne Fitzgerald, Mother of Ryan, Class of '05, and Robert, Class of '09. To read the obituary click HERE.

Richard Harmon, Father of Bradley, Class of '76. To read the obituary click HERE.

Each month we remember those who have died recently or those who are called to our attention. Please keep them, their families, and friends in your prayers.

REMINDERS

Stay in Touch: Thank you alumni, parents, family and neighbors for sending postal address and email updates. Use [email protected] to update contact information. And, share jobs, graduations, accomplishments, weddings, births, retirements, and certainly if there are deaths in our Xavier community please let us know. 

For More News: Go to xavierhighschool.org, and Xavier High School on Linked In, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.  If you are looking for sports news go to xavierfalcons.com. E-Newsletters are archived on the website, xavierhighschool.org, under the Alumni & Giving tab.

Loving Father,

We ask you to protect the students, faculty and staff at Xavier High School. 

Guide us to salvation by following the example of Jesus Christ, your Son. 

Inspire us with your grace, to seek both academic success and spiritual wisdom as we use your gifts and talents in service to others. 

Help us to find the strength and passion to be leaders and pioneers like Theodore James Ryken, the Xaverian Brothers and those who founded our school. 

May we, in turn, accept the challenge to spread the Word of God and make the world a better place for all people. 

We ask this, through Christ, our Lord. Amen 

Saint Francis Xavier pray for us.

- Chris Danko ’11 and Francis Rowland ‘11

Xavier High School is part of the Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools (XBSS) network of thirteen high and middle schools in the United States.  To learn more about the XBSS Network go to xbss.org.

AROUND & ABOUT

Heritage Society

Thank You to our Heritage Society members who made lifetime gifts in perpetuity such as endowed funds, insurance policies, and estate and trust bequests that protect the Xavier mission to educate young men in service to others so that each student is prepared to respond to the Christian call of the school motto, “Be A Man, A Man Like Christ.”

The newest member of the Heritage Society is Michael Millane '74, with the naming of Xavier in his estate plans. If you have included Xavier High School in any planned gift please inform us in order that we add your name to the exclusive Xavier Heritage Society Donor Honor Roll.

To see the full Heritage Society Honor Roll click HERE. To learn how you too can become a part of this transformational group of supporters contact the advancement team at 860 346 7735, or at [email protected].

Job Posting - FT Chemistry Teacher

Xavier High School is seeking applicants for a FT chemistry teaching position for the remainder of the 2022-2023 school year. The ideal candidate will:

demonstrate a passion for working with adolescent boys in a Catholic, college-prep setting; support and uphold the mission of a Catholic and Xaverian educational community; possess at least a bachelor’s degree (a master’s degree is preferred) in chemistry or a related field; have experience teaching in a high school setting; have superior interpersonal skills; be able to incorporate technology into a BYOD learning environment; be open to taking a role in the community outside of the classroom.

Interested candidates should send the following: resume, cover letter, statement of educational philosophy, transcripts, and three letters of recommendation to Mr. Brendan Donohue, Principal, [email protected].

Community Survey Results

Many of you responded to the survey included in the Fall Annual Appeal.  Thank you for your generous gifts again this year, and thank you for the input on when, how, and why we communicate with you.  Some trends were: the school mission and the top tier education are highly important to parents and grandparents, be they current or former parents. Many former parents noted the success their sons have had in work and in family life due to the values instilled by Xavier.  Alumni contributors noted the lifelong friendships and sense of brotherhood they have from their time at Xavier. The amount of communications is agreeable with most recipients being that they include both USPS mail and online appeals and news communications. These are just a few take-aways from the survey.  If you have any that you would like to add contact Liz Whitty at 860 346 7735 x732 or [email protected].

MARK YOUR CALENDAR

Keep these dates in mind as you plan for 2023.

January 3 - April 3, 11am, the 25K CASH RAFFLE tickets are being sold.  Go to xavierhighschool.org and click the link for more details, and to purchase tickets. Remember someone is going to win it all. Last year a current family won. The prior year a faculty / alumni family won. Only 800 tickets will be sold. 

March 25, 31st Annual Black & White Auction hosted by the Xavier Home and School Association.  Lead by Sue Houle, P '23, P '19, the auction is IN PERSON, and jam packed with fun, and loads of exciting auction items for you, family, and friends.  Join us on March 25.

ALUMNI UPDATES

Mike Kohs '84, Recipient of the 2022 Ryken Award, a recognition of a lifetime of commitment to building young men who live the school motto: "Be a Man. A Man like Christ." Chosen by the adult members of faculty and staff this is a profound statement of a career dedicated to the benefit of Xavier students, and to keeping the Xaverian values in partnership with the entire school community.

Junior Career Night is in January 17.  Alumni from various industries will be sharing their experience with the Juniors. Volunteers from law enforcement, public administration, business leadership, IT, finance, investments and accounting, health services, the law, architecture, construction and the trades will be represented.  Thank you Alumni. 

All Alumni. Remember to follow us on Linked In to share your career news, and to strengthen networking opportunities for all alumni, recent graduates, and current students. If classmates are not receiving this e-newsletter, send it to them. 

The Alumni, Faculty & Staff Library would be a great place to house a copy of your publication.  If you are an author send us a copy of your book - a signed copy would be even better. We will proudly showcase it in our library. 

IN MEMORIUM

Matthew Sinclair, Class of '86, To read the obituary click HERE.

Sebastiana Aresco, Mother to Carmelo '78, and John '88. Grandmother to Louis Aresco, and Christopher '07 and Daniel '08 Carmelo. To read the obituary click HERE.

Vincent A. Marella, Grandfather of Christopher '01 and Matthew '04 Haywood. To read the obituary click HERE.

Craig Anderson, Class of '72. To read the obituary click HERE.

Evelyn Konefal, Mother of Andrew '69. To read the obituary click HERE.

Christopher Paul Del Sole, Class of '99. Son of Stephen '70. To read the obituary click HERE.

Stanley L. Radziewicz, Father of Steven '80, Mark '82, Pete '85, and Jim '89. To read the obituary click HERE.

Each month we remember those who have died recently or those who are called to our attention. Please keep them, their families, and friends in your prayers.

REMINDERS

Stay in Touch: Thank you alumni, parents, family and neighbors for sending postal address and email updates. Use [email protected] to update contact information. And, share jobs, graduations, accomplishments, weddings, births, retirements, and certainly if there are deaths in our Xavier community please let us know. 

For General Information and News: Go to xavierhighschool.org and Xavier High School on Facebook.  If you are looking for sports news, please go to our athletic website, xavierfalcons.com. E-Newsletters are archived on the website, xavierhighschool.org, under the Alumni & Giving tab.

XAVIER HIGH SCHOOL PRAYER - read at the close of school each day

Loving Father,

We ask you to protect the students, faculty and staff at Xavier High School. 

Guide us to salvation by following the example of Jesus Christ, your Son. 

Inspire us with your grace, to seek both academic success and spiritual wisdom as we use your gifts and talents in service to others. 

Help us to find the strength and passion to be leaders and pioneers like Theodore James Ryken, the Xaverian Brothers and those who founded our school. 

May we, in turn, accept the challenge to spread the Word of God and make the world a better place for all people. 

We ask this, through Christ, our Lord. Amen 

Saint Francis Xavier pray for us.

- Chris Danko ’11 and Francis Rowland ‘11

Xavier High School is part of the Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools (XBSS) network of thirteen high and middle schools in the United States.  To learn more about the XBSS Network go to xbss.org.

A WORD FROM ALUMNI ASSOCIATION PRESIDENT, BRIAN FARRELL '86 

2022 Walkathon brought in $119,000 for Xavier, and $131,000 for Mercy on October 21.  It is the largest student fundraiser of the year. Students engaged families and friends in support of their schools and of each other. These charitable gifts lift each student and each school department.

Home and School Association President, Sue Houle, P '19, '22, '23, announced that members of the group will now be acting as Xavier Ambassadors. You will see them at events,  receptions, and others community activities throughout school extracurricular life. The Xavier Ambassadors will be active as way-finders, greeters and spokespeople for the entire school community.    

Open House on October 23, saw record numbers of families and prospective students getting to know Xavier and the Xavier family.  It was an all hands on deck event with student tour guides, faculty and staff representing every aspect of academic, athletics, clubs and school life.  The advancement office hosted a Mercy and Xavier Legacy Family reception.  Home and School prepared a festive Fall feast in the dining hall hosted by Xavier Ambassadors who shared their own Xavier stories with prospective families.     

Rich and Lauralane Feitel, were honored with the 2021 - 2022 Volunteers of the Year Award by the Association of Catholic  Admissions and Advancement Professionals at College of the Holy Cross in Worcester on October 15. The Feitels' have supported the students, alumni and families of Xavier since Rich became a faculty member in the 1960's. The rest is history.  

Over $300,000 Planned Gift from the Margaret Patricia Eagan Trust, for the Eagan Endowed Scholarship for a student or students from Saint Joseph Church, Chester, or Parishes within the the Old Saybrook Deanery of the Diocese of Norwich.

Xavier Sports News: Tristan Schemmerling '23, and Zach Potter '23 represented Xavier and Hartford's Riverfront Recapture at the Head of the Charles Regatta in Boston.  Alex Ushchak '23 took 1st Place in the Southern Connecticut Cross Country Championship.

More Wisdom from Brother James M. Kelly C.F.X., former Principal, Xavier High School, "Adolescents have an uncanny knack for backing adults into corners. Try as we might, it is rather difficult to be reasonable from a corner. If you find at times (maybe more times than you'd like), there is a dichotomy between your theory and your practice when you are dealing with your son, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Look upon these occasions as a chance to practice humility. Above all, keep in mind the words of St. Francis de Sales: 'Be patient with all things, but first of all with yourself'".

MARK YOUR CALENDAR

Fall is here.  Keep these dates in mind as you plan for the end of the year.

November 27, Sunday: Thanksgiving Family Mass - all faith traditions are invited to celebrate mass together during this uniquely American season.

December 1, Thursday: Saint Francis Xavier Society & Heritage Society Donor Reception at Griswold Inn, Essex. Invitations are out.

December 2, Friday: 2nd Annual Falcon Giving Day for Student Financial Aid (online event)

December 27, Tuesday, & 28, Wednesday: Arthur M. Kohs Christmas Basketball Tournament and basketball player reunion.

ALUMNI UPDATES

Share Your News: jobs, graduations, accomplishments, weddings, births, retirements, and certainly if there are deaths in our Xavier community please let us know. 

Alumni: Remember to follow us Linked In to share your career news, and to strengthen networking opportunities for all alumni, recent graduates, and current students. If classmates are not receiving this e-newsletter, send it to them. 

IN MEMORIUM

Timothy William Biskupiak, Class of '84. To read the obituary click HERE.

Carolyn Ann Garofoli, mother of Michael '91 and David '84, and Mercy High faculty. To read the obituary click HERE. 

Joan Ryan, mother of Pat Ryan Boothroyd, Mercy '72 and Ed Boothroyd '72, and grandmother of Ryan '00 and Jason '02. To read the obituary click HERE. 

John Paardenkooper Sr., father of John '86, and Erana, Jayn and Jackie of Mercy. To read the obituary click HERE.

David M. Cekala, Class of '67. To read the obituary click HERE.

Each month we remember those who have died recently or those who are called to our attention. Please keep them, their families and friends in your prayers.

ALUMNI & COMMUNITY REMINDERS

Stay in Touch: Thank you alumni, parents, family and neighbors for sending postal address and email updates. Use [email protected] to update contact information.

For general information and news on the school go to xavierhighschool.org and Xavier High School on Facebook.  If you are looking for sports news, please go to our athletic website, xavierfalcons.com. E-Newsletters are archived on the website, xavierhighschool.org, under the Alumni & Giving tab.

XAVIER HIGH SCHOOL PRAYER 

- read at the close of school each day

Loving Father,

We ask you to protect the students, faculty and staff at Xavier High School. 

Guide us to salvation by following the example of Jesus Christ, your Son. 

Inspire us with your grace, to seek both academic success and spiritual wisdom as we use your gifts and talents in service to others. 

Help us to find the strength and passion to be leaders and pioneers like Theodore James Ryken, the Xaverian Brothers and those who founded our school. 

May we, in turn, accept the challenge to spread the Word of God and make the world a better place for all people. 

We ask this, through Christ, our Lord. Amen 

Saint Francis Xavier pray for us.

- Chris Danko ’11 and Francis Rowland ‘11

Xavier High School is part of the Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools (XBSS) network of thirteen high and middle schools in the United States.  To learn more about the XBSS Network go to xbss.org.

AROUND & ABOUT

Xavier Leadership Institute (XLI) at Holy Family Retreat & Conference Center, West Hartford was attended by seniors, faculty, and alumni leaders in August. To see more photos from this event go to the Xavier High School Facebook Page (facebook.com/XavierHighCT).

155 Freshmen were welcomed by their Big Falcons at Falcon Blast on August 25. Fourteen transfer students are joining us at orientation in late August and early September.  The first official day of school is Tuesday, September 6. 

The Freshman Class of 2026 has over 15 legacy families and counting.  Xavier has a growing number of three generation legacies this year.

Xavier Alumni Golf Classic - September 9, The 2022 Alumni Golf Classic at Portland Golf Course is sold out to players, but sponsorships to support student financial aid are still an option. Consider a special honorary sponsorship in the name of former Athletic Director, Tony Jaskot ’69, and / or a memorial sponsorship for Alumni Golf Classic committee member, Ron Raffele ‘70. Contact Greg Jaskot at [email protected] or 860-346-7735, X733. 

^{On Jugs and Grudges, from Brother James Kelly, Principal 1982 - 1991}

“Parents occasionally ask what the purpose of Jug (justice under God) is, some have even been so bold as to suggest that we might find some more positive punishment than Jug.  But why tamper with success? Jug does two things which every school boy hates: It wastes his time, and it’s boring. The whole point of Jug is to impress upon the student that actions have consequences.”

And, about getting and giving jugs, “That’s one of the most delightful things about working with teenage boys.  They just don’t hold grudges. I even saw in a number of them a grudging respect for me that I had stuck to my word.”

From Respecting the Man the Boy Will Become, A Parent’s Guide to Loving, Teaching and Raising Teenage Boys, Brother James M. Kelly C.F.X., 1999, St. Xavier High School and Butler Books, pages 47-49.

Calling All Alumni!  The City of Middletown Police Department is looking to hire an entry level police officer.  If interested, please click HERE for more information.  Applications will be accepted until 11:59 p.m. on September 15.

MARK YOUR CALENDAR

Larry McHugh, was appointed to the board of the CT Port Authority. To read the full article click HERE.

Xavier Graduates 182 In Class of 2022

Xavier graduated 182 at its 56th commencement exercises on Saturday, May 21. A few highlights from that and the Baccalaureate Mass on Friday evening, May 20. Two members of the 2022 graduating class were twins Benjamin and Michael Pitruzzello; they were the fourth Pitruzzello brothers to come here. Their father Carl is the Class of 1986. Xavier presented an award to the 19 alumni fathers, grandfathers, and guardians of Saturday’s graduating seniors. They each received a special engraved medal. Pitruzzello was one. So, too, was Hans Fjellman, Class of 1967, whose grandson Matthew Stevens is in the Class of 2022. That drew a loud roar from the crowd. As did the recognition of Brother Thomas Ryan, C.F.X., for his 25 years at Xavier, and all the major award winners.

Valedictorian: Aidan Higgins of Rockfall, who will attend Harvard and major in English Literature.

Salutatorian: Matthew O’Connor of Cromwell, who will attend UConn as the recipient of the STEM Presidential Scholarship to study Actuarial Science. 

Loyalty & Service Award: Mitchell Wollen of Wallingford, who will attend the U.S. Military Academy at West Point.

Falcon Achievement Award: Drew Kron of Hebron, who will attend UConn as a Division I scholarship baseball player. 

Principal's Academic Achievement Award: Dylan Misenti. He will attend Bryant University and is the son of Jeff Misenti, Class of 1986. This was awarded at the close of the Baccalaureate Mass.

A few numbers from graduation:

$2.2 million: What the Class of '22 earned in scholarships next year.

$8.5 million: What the Class of '22 earned over the next four years.

25: Number of students attending UConn

2: Number of students going to both Harvard and Yale. Also, number of students going to a military academy (U.S. Military Academy at West Point, U.S. Air Force Academy).

Alumni President's Message

Congratulations to the class of 2022 and welcome to the Alumni Association!  Your Alumni Association is developing our schedule for next year, including a volunteer sign-up to facilitate your opportunity to be involved next year. If you would like to be involved, we will make room for you at an event or on a committee to help drive the engagement of your Xavier Alumni Community. On behalf of the Alumni Association, have a safe and blessed summer. Should you need anything, you are always welcome to connect with us through our alumni email.

Alumni Association President Brian Farrell '86

[email protected]

College Networking

The 2022 graduates received lists from the previous three graduating classes so that when they get to their particular college they can network with other Xavier grads attending the same school. If you'd like to network with those from your college, please let us know what college you attended or are attending, and your email address.

View Artie Kohs Video Tribute

The CAS-CIAC Hall of Honors induction dinner for the Class of 2019-2020, delayed due to COVID, was held May 26 with one of the inductees being the late Artie Kohs, the father of Xavier athletics. He started the program in 1963 and here we are nearly 60 years later with 98 state and New England championships. Thanks to all who contributed to this video tribute of Mr. Kohs and to John Holt of CAS-CIAC for putting this together. It is fit for a King, and that was one of Artie’s nicknames. View the video.

Ciamarra Is NCAA Doubles Champion

Richard Ciamarra '17, a graduate transfer from Notre Dame, and sophomore Cleeve Harper won the men's NCAA Doubles National Championship for Texas with a 5-7, 6-4, 1-0 (7) victory over No. 2 Matej Vocel and Robert Cash of Ohio State on Saturday at the Khan Outdoor Tennis Complex in Champaign, Ill. Ciamarra and Harper were seeded fourth. The match was decided in a third-set super tiebreaker. Read the story here.

Support Xavier At Panizzo in Rocky Hill

Xavier is proud to partner with Panizzo in Rocky Hill, owned and operated by Fran DelMastro, Class of 1979. Through the end of June, 10 percent of gross sales to any Xavier alumni, current Xavier family or family of Xavier alumni who mention the DINE TO DONATE program will be donated to Xavier. That includes dining in, taking out, delivery, or catering. Join us for terrific Italian Street Food at Panizzo and help support Xavier! Here is the outstanding MENU.

Alumni Updates/Milestones 

Brian O’Neill ’74 worked for Pfizer for 35 years as a medicinal chemist before retiring five years ago, and now he consults for smaller companies.

David Boraks '77 is a climate reporter the National Public Radio affiliate WFAE in Charlotte. 
Boraks also has worked for many newspapers, including the Middletown Press, Waterbury Republic-American, the Hartford Courant, and the Charlotte Observer.

Brian Devins '93 lives in Weston, Fla.. He is a Supervisory Border Patrol Agent, Dania Beach Station, Miami Sector. His previous stations were Yuma, AZ, and Nogales, AZ. "I was detailed to the FBI Joint Terrorism Task Force in Miami, and the Drug Enforcement Administration. I was also a Federal Air Marshall from 2002-2006." 

Nick Finnell '03 is Senior Manager, Sales Special Projects, for JA Solar USA, which sells solar panels.

Joe Perrelli '11 is a project manager for Martel Construction Inc., in Bozeman, MT. "My first project with this company was building a large lodge in Yellowstone National Park ... I had grizzly bears, elk, moose, deer, bison, etc., outside my cabin most days!"

Gavin O’Connell '18 graduated May 22 Magna Cum Laude from the University of Rhode Island with a double major in International Relations and French. Gavin was also recognized before graduation with an Academic Excellence Award, which is presented each year to fewer than 80 graduating seniors who have proven to be exceptional students. These students have been selected by their respective departments as the most outstanding in their chosen fields. Gavin plans to complete his post-graduate studies at URI to obtain an MA in International Relations with a concentration in Diplomacy and Statecraft.

Colby Dahl ‘21 earned his private pilot’s license and is continuing his education at Liberty University toward a degree in Aeronautics. He was recently inducted into the Tao Sigma Honor Society.

Sam Baker '21 received the Joseph E. Sheerin Merit Prize in the Study of Classical Languages and Literatures as Assumption University honored 84 students with academic awards at the annual spring Honors Convocation on April 11. 

Steven Berry '83 and his wife Suzanne, Mercy '83, celebrated their 25th anniversary.

Tim Boyle QB/WR One-Day Camp June 25

The Tim Boyle QB/WR one-day camp will be held at Xavier on June 25 from 10 a.m.-1:30 p.m. The costs is $60; the camp is open to those in grades 5-12. A T-shirt is included in the fee. Boyle is the former Xavier quarterback now playing for the Detroit Lions in the National Football League. Register here.

Class of 1972 50th Reunion

To register for the Class of 1972 50th reunion, click here.

Around The Campus

• New lights will be installed in the chapel in June.
• On Thursday night, April 28, Xavier held its Academic Achievement Night in which more than 70 awards were handed out. The master of ceremonies was National Honor Society President Selorm Dogbey '22, an example of a Xaveir student who has melded athletics, extracurriculars and academics seamlessly. Principal Brendan Donohue told those students gathered: "The fact that you are here tonight means that God has given you a great gift. With that gift comes the responsibility to use it wisely. Congratulations to all of you, and keep using your gifts to make yourself and the world a better place."
• Noah Howell '22 earned Eagle Scout status. His Eagle Scout project was raising funds, planning, and constructing improvements to the East Hampton Food Bank vegetable garden, which is maintained by the Belltown Gardening Club. The food bank helps those in need in East Hampton.
• The EJK Car Show, which benefits the Eric J. Kalber Scholarship Fund, once again attracted cars of all makes and years as the front parking lot was filled on May 8. The event honors the memory of  Kalber '04, who was killed in an automobile accident in 2005. There were some real classics at the show, even one that is closing in on being 100 years old, a 1925 Ford dump truck. Then, to name just a few more, a 1965 red Pontiac GTO, a ‘49 Chevy, a ‘33 Plymouth Coup, a 2007 Ford Roush Mustang, a 2013 Chevy Corvette 60th anniversary, and a 1987 Jaguar XJS. The show raised about $3,700 for the scholarship fund.
• Sophomore Kyle Levesque received the first Joseph W. Morelli '02 Memorial Scholarship for excellence on the Xavier wrestling team. Joe was an outstanding wrestler who died from a rare form of cancer in 2018. A Facebook page can be found here.

What's New With You?

We are interested in any and all news of our alumni, from milestones to personal and career achievements. You can email [email protected] with alumni news.

In Memoriam

Gerald J. Harvey, father of  former Xavier Principal Brother Lawrence Harvey, C.F.X.: For Gerald's obituary please click here.

John P. Bozzi Jr, Class of 1967: For John's obituary please click here.  

A Few Reminders

If you are looking for general information and news on the school, go to xavierhighschool.org. If you are looking for sports news, please go to our athletic website, xavierfalcons.com.

Alumni newsletters are archived on our website, xavierhighschool.org, under the Alumni & Giving section.

If you're a published author, we'd like to hear about it. We have a number of books on our shelves from Xavier graduates, but would love to showcase more.

If you know of an alumni who is not getting the newsletter, please have them email [email protected] with their name, address, email address & phone number.